FABcast #489 - Fully Known and Fully Loved

The first time I heard this concept of being fully known was from pastor Matt Chandler in a 12-part sermon series called "Recovering Redemption.” My plumber friend had introduced me to the concept a few years prior. But, it wasn't until after hearing the sermon series that the concept started to haunt me. That is, until I gave into the prompting of the Holy Spirit, trusted that Jesus was truly my deliverer and “came clean.” After I had shared everything that came to mind (because I only wanted to cry once), my wife chose to do the same. From then on, confession and remaining “fully known” became a lifestyle. People in our community group noticed the changes in us and “joined the club.” It was as if everyone was experiencing the joy of Romans 8:1, there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus our Lord. I used to wish that being fully known was a one time deal. Confess it all and be done with it. Then I realized that having a secret could happen the moment I chose to do something that resulted in guilt and shame. Now I don't dread crossing over into fully known because in it God is glorified. In fact, the ongoing cycle of sin, guilt, shame, fear, confession, repentance, and reconciliation is a way to keep displaying godliness here on earth as it is in heaven. Tim Keller writes about being fully known in his book, The Meaning of Marriage To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything.” When it comes to being fully known, we need not fear for Lord has not given his children a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. Another person's reaction should never be a factor in choosing to be free. It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.