Failure in Dating, part 1: EP 3
from The Derelict Podcast Hosted by Josh Tomeoni
In today’s episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs discuss FAILURES IN DATING! What a fun topic, holy shit! There are so many challenges of dating- particularly for divorced dads! We explore the different personas or roles they adopt in dating and how these personas can be healthy or unhealthy depending on their alignment with their core values. We also discuss the importance of taking time to work on oneself before entering the dating world and the pitfalls of using dating as a form of therapy. The conversation highlights love addiction, codependency, today’s world of dating (ew), healthy relationships, and boundaries. Let us know what you think! Email us: [email protected] Resources: “Single on Purpose” John Kim “Codependent No More” Melody Beattie “Boundaries” Henry Cloud, John Townsend “The 8 C’s of Self”, Julia Sullivan, adapted from Dr. Richard Schwartz Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Scary Part of Dating 08:22 Failing at Being in a Committed Relationship 10:46 Unlocking Different Dating Personas 23:13 Dating as Ineffective Therapy 25:02 Taking Time to Work on Yourself 29:07 Love Addiction and Serial Dating 29:36 Love Addiction and Codependency 36:09 The World of Dating: Online Dating, Multi-Dating, and Open Relationships 42:16 Healthy Relationships: Are They Possible? 49:40 Boundaries: Enhancing Relationships and Holding Boundaries 57:06 Summary and Resources
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