Fake It Till You Make Friends: One Shintrovert's Wild Year // Jessica Pan's "Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come"

Who could you be if you didn’t label yourself? Self-described shintrovert (that’s shy + introvert), Jessica Pan's, memoir "Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come" follows her journey as a shy introvert who challenges herself to live like an extrovert for a year by saying yes to experiences that scare her. In this candid conversation with my first friend Misty, we discuss the importance of pushing beyond self-imposed limitations and how connecting deeply with others can transform your life. • Exploring the spectrum between introversion and extroversion through our own experiences • The impact positive strangers can have during difficult moments in our lives • How fear controls us when we allow it to define our boundaries • Breaking the cycle of letting past negative experiences color current relationships • The value of face-to-face interactions in an increasingly digital world • Why talking to strangers can lead to greater happiness according to research • The challenge of making new friends as adults and the time investment true friendship requires • Learning that vulnerability doesn't equal weakness but rather creates connection • Finding the courage to do things outside your comfort zone builds genuine confidence"Once we get out of our own way, beautiful things can happen." Thank you for joining me for the first episode of Babes in Bookland!  Chapter Markers0:00: Welcome to Babes in Bookland  1:56: Quick Topics: Exploring Introversion vs Extroversion9:30: Diving Deeper: The Impact of Positive Strangers14:04:  Breaking Free From Fear24:05: The Art of Public Speaking30:30: Connecting With Others 36:14: Finding True Friendship42:32: Vulnerability and Final ThoughtsSupport the show!On Patreon!Buy us a book!Buy cute merch!If you have any comments or questions, please connect with me on Instagram or email [email protected]. I’d love to hear your suggestions and feedback!Link to this episode’s book:Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come by Jessica PanOther ways to support/connect with Jessica Pan:Substack InstagramTranscripts are available through apple’s podcast app—they may not be perfect, but relying on them allows me to dedicate more time to the show! If you’re interested in being a transcript angel, let me know. This episode is produced, recorded, and edited by me.Theme song by Devin KennedySpecial thanks to my dear friend, Misty. You’ve known me all my life and you still love me and allow me to grow and change. XxConnect with us and suggest a great memoir!Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.