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EPISODE · Mar 9, 2026 · 1H 9M

"Fantasizing About My Wife" With Brett Dodenhoff

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What happens when your spouse suddenly loses interest in sex? This week, the hilarious Brett Dodenhoff, cohost of the new podcast ‘Lust to Dust: My Horny Dead Dad,’ joins Sophia and Kelsey to talk about his late father’s sex memoir. He then reads as Frank*, a 58-year-old doctor who we can confidently diagnose as a wife guy. Listen in to hear his tales of horny orchestra students, sex after stitches, and encountering midlife asexuality. *Not Frank’s real name, but definitely his real stories Today’s episode includes … 00:26: Our guest: Brett Dodenhoff 07:13: The ineffective no-hookup rule 12:40: Our business: “Frank” 14:49: First Things First: “The violinist came on to me” 21:08: The One Who Got Away: “A fabulous, tumultuous month” 27:43: Cheater, Cheater: “The sex started disappearing” 42:50: Best I Ever Had: “I just about died” 46:09: Status Update: “Remember our old lives?” 54:47: Fuck-It List: “The embarrassed guy in the threesome” 57:49: Parting Shots: “It would open things up for me” If you have business you’d like to submit, hit us up at [email protected]. Follow Brett on TikTok, IG, YouTube! https://www.tiktok.com/@brettthelorax?lang=en https://www.instagram.com/brettthelorax/ https://www.youtube.com/@Brett.Dodenhoff Listen Brett’s podcast, ‘Lust to Dust: My Horny Dead Dad’ https://open.spotify.com/show/5RpohVgue0LFE11mXioDr7 Hosts: Sophia Benoit and Kelsey June Jensen Guest: Brett Dodenhoff Supervising producer: Justin Sayles Additional production: Sasha Ashall, Julianna Ress, and Austin Gayle Video editing and production: Kayla Talley Social: Sasha Ashall and Austin Gayle Art direction: David Shoemaker and Aleya Zenieris Motion design: Skull Closet Studio Additional motion design support: Chris Calleton Theme song: “Feeling Myself” by Joseph, used under license from ⁠http://premiumbeat.com⁠. CONNECT Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/noneofmybusiness.pod ⁠TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@noneofmybusiness.pod ⁠Sophia's Twitter: ⁠x.com/1followernodad ⁠Sophia's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/sgbenoit⁠ Kelsey's TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@kelseyjunejensen ⁠Kelsey's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/kelseyjunejensen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What happens when your spouse suddenly loses interest in sex? This week, the hilarious Brett Dodenhoff, cohost of the new podcast ‘Lust to Dust: My Horny Dead Dad,’ joins Sophia and Kelsey to talk about his late father’s sex memoir. He then reads as Frank*, a 58-year-old doctor who we can confidently diagnose as a wife guy. Listen in to hear his tales of horny orchestra students, sex after stitches, and encountering midlife asexuality. *Not Frank’s real name, but definitely his real stories Today’s episode includes … 00:26: Our guest: Brett Dodenhoff 07:13: The ineffective no-hookup rule 12:40: Our business: “Frank” 14:49: First Things First: “The violinist came on to me” 21:08: The One Who Got Away: “A fabulous, tumultuous month” 27:43: Cheater, Cheater: “The sex started disappearing” 42:50: Best I Ever Had: “I just about died” 46:09: Status Update: “Remember our old lives?” 54:47: Fuck-It List: “The embarrassed guy in the threesome” 57:49: Parting Shots: “It would open things up for me” If you have business you’d like to submit, hit us up at [email protected]. Follow Brett on TikTok, IG, YouTube! https://www.tiktok.com/@brettthelorax?lang=en https://www.instagram.com/brettthelorax/ https://www.youtube.com/@Brett.Dodenhoff Listen Brett’s podcast, ‘Lust to Dust: My Horny Dead Dad’ https://open.spotify.com/show/5RpohVgue0LFE11mXioDr7 Hosts: Sophia Benoit and Kelsey June Jensen Guest: Brett Dodenhoff Supervising producer: Justin Sayles Additional production: Sasha Ashall, Julianna Ress, and Austin Gayle Video editing and production: Kayla Talley Social: Sasha Ashall and Austin Gayle Art direction: David Shoemaker and Aleya Zenieris Motion design: Skull Closet Studio Additional motion design support: Chris Calleton Theme song: “Feeling Myself” by Joseph, used under license from ⁠http://premiumbeat.com⁠. CONNECT Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/noneofmybusiness.pod ⁠TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@noneofmybusiness.pod ⁠Sophia's Twitter: ⁠x.com/1followernodad ⁠Sophia's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/sgbenoit⁠ Kelsey's TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@kelseyjunejensen ⁠Kelsey's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/kelseyjunejensen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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