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EPISODE · Oct 2, 2025 · 58 MIN

Feeding in the first year: our experience with breastfeeding, combo feeding & solids

from Two Parents & A Podcast · host Alex & Harrison Fugman

This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re talking about one of the biggest journeys of year one: feeding your baby. From what it actually feels like when your milk comes in (spoiler: flu-like) to transitioning to combo feeding, to introducing solids and eventually dropping bottles — we’re breaking down what worked for us, what didn’t, and what we’d 100% do differently next time. We get into all the real stuff: middle-of-the-night pumping (don’t do what I did), my experience with DMER (Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex), how a night nurse helped (for Harrison, not me LOL), and the partner’s role in supporting breastfeeding and pumping. Plus tactical things like grocery hauls, our favorite hacks, and a rapid-fire round of the best (and most overrated) products. Before all that… Halloween costume brainstorming (!!! sorry we had to bleep it lol) and our BIGGEST milestone yet — Tate is officially walking (and yes, she needed her first real shoes, cue the tears). And in Things We DMed Each Other: why queen-size beds might actually save your marriage (did Matthew McConaughey have a point??) and our thoughts on the dreaded “black tie optional” dress code (aka the most confusing vibe check ever). LOVE YOU GUYS — thanks for following along through our first year of feeding, learning, and figuring it all out with us. Timestamps:  00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:02:40 Brainstorming Halloween costume ideas 00:07:10 Tate is walking! + buying your baby’s first shoes 00:09:30 12 months of breastfeeding recap 00:12:07 Why I chose to exclusively breastfeed for the first 6 months 00:13:20 What it actually feels like when your milk comes in 00:14:25 Our experience with a night nurse 00:15:57 Handling middle-of-the-night feeds & pumping 00:18:35 Final thoughts on the first 0–3 months of breastfeeding 00:20:27 What I’ll do differently for future babies 00:24:40 My experience with DMER (Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex) 00:25:49 Transitioning to combo feeding (and how we made it work) 00:27:58 Introducing solids & our approach to first foods 00:33:15 Weaning off pumping & dropping bottles 00:35:00 A full day of eating + family grocery haul 00:37:36 The partner’s role in breastfeeding & pumping 00:42:26 What I wish I knew before starting the pumping journey 00:46:00 Rapid fire Qs: top pumping product, best hack, most overrated, biggest surprise & what we’d do differently 00:51:17 Final reflections on my breastfeeding journey 00:53:10 Things We DMed Each Other: Why queen beds might save your marriage 00:54:39 Things We DMed Each Other: “Black tie optional” dress codes?? 00:56:15 LOVE YOU GUYS! #twoparentsandapod --------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Nurture Life: For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com/TWOPARENTS and use code TWOPARENTS. *Fast Growing Trees: This Fall, Fast Growing Trees has the best deals for your yard, up to half off on select plants and other deals.  Listeners of our show get 15% OFF at https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/TWOPARENTS when using the code TWOPARENTS at checkout. *BetterHelp: As the largest online therapy provider in the world, BetterHelp provides access to mental health professionals with a wide variety of expertise. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/TWOPARENTS. --------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on YouTube/Spotify/Apple: https://www.youtube.com/@twoparentsandapod https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnHmNzOX9MdnzyU4bD?si=5e715ebaf9014fac https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-parents-a-podcast/id1737442386 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re talking about one of the biggest journeys of year one: feeding your baby. From what it actually feels like when your milk comes in (spoiler: flu-like) to transitioning to combo feeding, to introducing solids and eventually dropping bottles — we’re breaking down what worked for us, what didn’t, and what we’d 100% do differently next time. We get into all the real stuff: middle-of-the-night pumping (don’t do what I did), my experience with DMER (Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex), how a night nurse helped (for Harrison, not me LOL), and the partner’s role in supporting breastfeeding and pumping. Plus tactical things like grocery hauls, our favorite hacks, and a rapid-fire round of the best (and most overrated) products. Before all that… Halloween costume brainstorming (!!! sorry we had to bleep it lol) and our BIGGEST milestone yet — Tate is officially walking (and yes, she needed her first real shoes, cue the tears). And in Things We DMed Each Other: why queen-size beds might actually save your marriage (did Matthew McConaughey have a point??) and our thoughts on the dreaded “black tie optional” dress code (aka the most confusing vibe check ever). LOVE YOU GUYS — thanks for following along through our first year of feeding, learning, and figuring it all out with us. Timestamps:  00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:02:40 Brainstorming Halloween costume ideas 00:07:10 Tate is walking! + buying your baby’s first shoes 00:09:30 12 months of breastfeeding recap 00:12:07 Why I chose to exclusively breastfeed for the first 6 months 00:13:20 What it actually feels like when your milk comes in 00:14:25 Our experience with a night nurse 00:15:57 Handling middle-of-the-night feeds & pumping 00:18:35 Final thoughts on the first 0–3 months of breastfeeding 00:20:27 What I’ll do differently for future babies 00:24:40 My experience with DMER (Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex) 00:25:49 Transitioning to combo feeding (and how we made it work) 00:27:58 Introducing solids & our approach to first foods 00:33:15 Weaning off pumping & dropping bottles 00:35:00 A full day of eating + family grocery haul 00:37:36 The partner’s role in breastfeeding & pumping 00:42:26 What I wish I knew before starting the pumping journey 00:46:00 Rapid fire Qs: top pumping product, best hack, most overrated, biggest surprise & what we’d do differently 00:51:17 Final reflections on my breastfeeding journey 00:53:10 Things We DMed Each Other: Why queen beds might save your marriage 00:54:39 Things We DMed Each Other: “Black tie optional” dress codes?? 00:56:15 LOVE YOU GUYS! #twoparentsandapod --------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Nurture Life: For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com/TWOPARENTS and use code TWOPARENTS. *Fast Growing Trees: This Fall, Fast Growing Trees has the best deals for your yard, up to half off on select plants and other deals.  Listeners of our show get 15% OFF at https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/TWOPARENTS when using the code TWOPARENTS at checkout. *BetterHelp: As the largest online therapy provider in the world, BetterHelp provides access to mental health professionals with a wide variety of expertise. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/TWOPARENTS. --------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on YouTube/Spotify/Apple: https://www.youtube.com/@twoparentsandapod https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnHmNzOX9MdnzyU4bD?si=5e715ebaf9014fac https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-parents-a-podcast/id1737442386 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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