Feeling Matters More Than Form

We have been socialized, especially in American or American-influenced culture, to believe that the FORM of our experience is the important part.This leads to obsession (not overstated!) with the structure and shape of jobs, careers, relationships, parenting, spiritual practice, creative projects...pretty much everything.What I have found through the archetypal work is that form actually matters very little.What matters is the FEELING. The vibe, as the youngs say. :-D When that lines up with your archetypal nature, including all its paradox and complexity, the form can actually be almost anything - that ends up being more a pragmatic consideration, almost an afterthought.I find that this bewilders people until they get the hang of it - I end up working on this with nearly every client and most of my students, because letting go of that belief in very prescriptive definition is a big deal.To illustrate with a common area of focus - if someone's "public-facing self" is based in the archetype of the Adventurer/Pattern-Seeker/Philosopher, the vibe that they both bring to their work in the world and need from their work in the world is one of expansion, optimism, faith in the unseen, fitting pieces together to make that bigger pattern.The FORM of that work can be anything from medical practice to bookkeeping (yes really) to writing to environmental science to fashion design.Every single one of those FORMS of work can hold that feeling of discovery, of pursuing a world that becomes ever-bigger and more fascinating, of finding a sense of a benign and purposeful existence that we're all part of.For that matter, every single one of those forms of work (or relationships or parenting or creative work etc.) can hold the vibe of ANY archetype.Pay more attention to how it FEELS than how it's FORMED and see where that leads you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.