Figuring out what's important

This is something I have thought about for the last year. I use to be goal and career driven but lately that's really started the shift and it's not like oh screw this I want something new. I've really been thinking what if I was my own boss for so long I've been if I hit this goal I will be happy if I do x y z I will be happy and turns out I'm not. So a restructure in life is needed how I do that is unknown but I do know that it needs to happen. Both the wife and myself are chasing after our dreams which is awesome and amazing just these next few years are going to be battle and a struggle but hey if you aren't struggling then you aren't pushing hard enough.