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EPISODE · Jun 23, 2026 · 1H 9M

Finding Freedom in Flexibility

from Kinda Religious · host Eli Zaffirini

Therapist Danielle Kaplan shares insights on dialectical thinking, the importance of flexibility in life, and how ancient philosophies influence modern therapy. She discusses practices that resonate with Jewish tradition like dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness, and contingency planning to help create a meaningful life.Resources:Danielle’s Practice: http://www.keepaustincentered.comThe Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli: https://www.amazon.com/Order-Time-Carlo-Rovelli/dp/0735216118 Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): https://behavioraltech.org/what-is-dbt/Topic Timestamps:00:00 Introduction02:19 Exploring Identity and Cultural Judaism05:02 Dialectical Thinking and Its Applications07:32 Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)10:03 Acceptance and Change in Therapy12:47 Mindfulness and Eastern Philosophical Influences15:31 The Nature of Truth and Non-Judgment18:10 Contradictory Ideas in Judaism20:11 The Role of Rituals and Structure in Grief22:41 Contingency Planning and Flexibility in Life24:54 Conclusion and Reflections on Therapy and Life35:52 The Power of Grieving and Celebrating Mindfully36:51 Coping Ahead: Preparing for the Worst38:01 The Nature of Fear and Anticipation38:48 Finding Freedom from Anxiety40:45 The Role of Rituals in Life42:22 Belief vs. Practice in Spirituality44:26 Creating Meaning through Actions45:51 The Importance of Doing47:32 Hope as a Verb49:10 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health55:21 Building a Life Worth Living01:00:46 The Significance of Rituals and Fire

Therapist Danielle Kaplan shares insights on dialectical thinking, the importance of flexibility in life, and how ancient philosophies influence modern therapy. She discusses practices that resonate with Jewish tradition like dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness, and contingency planning to help create a meaningful life.Resources:Danielle’s Practice: http://www.keepaustincentered.comThe Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli: https://www.amazon.com/Order-Time-Carlo-Rovelli/dp/0735216118 Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): https://behavioraltech.org/what-is-dbt/Topic Timestamps:00:00 Introduction02:19 Exploring Identity and Cultural Judaism05:02 Dialectical Thinking and Its Applications07:32 Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)10:03 Acceptance and Change in Therapy12:47 Mindfulness and Eastern Philosophical Influences15:31 The Nature of Truth and Non-Judgment18:10 Contradictory Ideas in Judaism20:11 The Role of Rituals and Structure in Grief22:41 Contingency Planning and Flexibility in Life24:54 Conclusion and Reflections on Therapy and Life35:52 The Power of Grieving and Celebrating Mindfully36:51 Coping Ahead: Preparing for the Worst38:01 The Nature of Fear and Anticipation38:48 Finding Freedom from Anxiety40:45 The Role of Rituals in Life42:22 Belief vs. Practice in Spirituality44:26 Creating Meaning through Actions45:51 The Importance of Doing47:32 Hope as a Verb49:10 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health55:21 Building a Life Worth Living01:00:46 The Significance of Rituals and Fire

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