Finding my Place in College

My sophomore year was a fantastic year for me. I finally started staying at BU on the weekends and I had found a group of friends. I broke up with Jay and began a healthy relationship with David which has had a substantial impact on my life. To top it off, I became the first female Division 1 All American for BU. I felt on top of the world.    Key Takeaways:    [0:57] Reflecting on my actions and goals  [6:32] Connecting to BU, making friends, and staying for the weekends [11:36] Struggling a bit at track meets with Jay training me [13:48] Living in an apartment and being surrounded by all my friends  [16:19] Gaining better time management skills with my classes [17:32] Ending my relationship with Jay, but he didn't want to [19:12] Drinking socially, not to get drunk  [20:26] Becoming the first Division 1 female All American at BU [24:00] Feeling like I had arrived and found my place [25:38] Meeting David, my first serious and healthy relationship  [29:01] Going down to the Cape in the summer of 1983 [30:11] Becoming great friends with Sally who is an amazing athlete  [33:19] Feeling like I mattered, but getting scared when things were good   Resources:   Summarization of Atomic Habits Atomic Habits   Connect with Barb:   Website   Facebook    Instagram   YouTube   The Molly B Foundation