Finding "the One"

"How did you get up the courage to say "Yes" to Dad for what you knew would be the rest of your life?" Ingrid asks Vicki questions about dating and marriage after she notices young women like her spouting cliches that feel insincere. "It just feels different." "You guys were meant for each other." ...How does that actually play out in a way that makes marriage feel like the exciting, natural next step. This is also one of our first conversations on the subject while Ingrid is single. (turns out, this is way easier to talk about when there isn't questions about ulterior motives or reading into current relationships) We just get to talk it out!