First Date Advice: Never Kiss on First Date

If you’re going on a first date, hear me on this—no matter how attracted you are, no matter how hard it feels, I believe you never kiss on the first date or worse more. I coach so many women who come to me asking, “Why did he ghost me? Why didn’t he want a second date? Why can’t I find a boyfriend?” And almost every time I ask, “Did you kiss him or give him everything on the first date?” their answer is yes.Here’s the truth: when you give your body up too soon, you send a message—whether you mean to or not. That maybe this is how you are with everyone, that you don’t fully honor or respect yourself. And it takes away the mystery, the excitement, the reason for him to want more.Relationships are meant to grow and blossom slowly. Leave room for curiosity, for respect, for anticipation. Because when you value yourself enough to wait—you teach the other person to value you too.Support the show