Firstborn Children Bully Their Sibs
from Dr. Howard Smith Reports Hosted by Howard G. Smith MD, AM
Vidcast: https://youtu.be/-HhcJ1th6Z8 As our families add children, we parents turn to our older children and encourage them to be the new arrival’s big brother or sister. The latest intelligence from psychologists at Britain’s University of Warwick reveals the worrisome intelligence that the older siblings instead tend to bully the younger ones. The researchers tabulated data from nearly 6900 British children who were studied at ages 5, 7 and 12 years. A total of 28% of the children were involved in sibling bullying, and many were both bullies and victims. Bullying occurred more often in families with 3 or more children, and the eldest child or older brothers were most often the bullies. Bullying tends to be rampant in any situation where humans live in close proximity, know which buttons to push, and compete for parental attention and other limited resources. Older children often resent the younger ones who came along to rob them of their only child privilege. Parents must guard against sibling violence by insuring equal resources for each child. They should nurture an abundance of self-esteem in each child. Most of all, parents should emphasize that family members are on a team and should work together, play together, and have each other’s back. #family #bullying #healthnews #healthtips Slava Dantchev, Dieter Wolke. Trouble in the nest: Antecedents of sibling bullying victimization and perpetration.. Developmental Psychology, 2019; DOI: 10.1037/dev0000700
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