for Tops That Text Back & Sex Ed That Doesn’t Suck

This week on Holdin’ Space with Z & Lee, Lee steps into his grown era 👏🏽 and reflects on all the ✨ lessons learned ✨ from past messes — because if you're not growing, you're just repeating the same situations with different hairstyles. We get real about sex, self-worth, and the sacred act of being with someone who actually cares 🛐 (shout out to the gentle tops doing the Lord’s work 🙌🏾).Z shares some Pride Month reflections 🏳️‍🌈 — the celebration, the struggle, and the slightly overdone corporate collabs. We dive into coming out stories (some cute, some chaotic), explore the gaps in queer sex ed 📚, and answer a very honest listener letter about how to prep for sex (aka Bottoming 101 🍑🚿). No shame here, just truths, tea, and a few tips your PE teacher definitely skipped.Whether you’re finding yourself, finding your position, or finding the confidence to speak up in bed — we got you. This episode is tender, shady, and everything in between 💅🏽.🕰 Chapters:00:00 – Lee’s growth era begins (again) 🌚02:31 – Pride Month without the performative glitter 🎉05:18 – In praise of Tops That Care 💆🏽‍♂️07:56 – Why sexual etiquette is hot 🔥10:29 – Global Pride vibes 🌍11:21 – Coming out: the soft launch vs. the scream 🧏🏽21:06 – Balancing faith and your freaky side 🙃25:11 – Is it sin or is it Sunday? ⛪️27:40 – More coming out gags (literally) 🤐31:53 – First times: the expectation vs. the chaos 🎬43:05 – Bottoming 101: Prep, patience & poppers 😮‍💨🍑