Forgiveness, Obsession & Common Dating Profile Mistakes

We kick things off with common dating profile mistakes then parse an article on forgiveness and debate whether some people are just too limited to know they’re an asshole. In “F*ck That Guy” news, we discuss a letter submitted by N., a woman in NYC who became obsessed with a man she met on OKCupid. We’ve all gotten too invested, too quickly, but N.’s attachment level set off warning bells for me. Sarah and I disagree on how the situation played out, but we both agreed the guy wasn’t the catch N.thought he was. Sarah felt N. came off too needy, but I countered that - no matter what N. did - this guy was always going to treat her like an option. We also say farewell to an uneven, disjointed and ultimate unsatisfying second season of Big Little Lies. Girl, bye. N.'s full letter https://www.womenologypod.com/post/forgiveness-obsession-dating-profile-mistakes How the concept of forgiveness is used to gaslight women https://medium.com/@kingsophiesworld/how-the-concept-of-forgiveness-is-used-to-gaslight-women-8d6e4a04e07e