Friday 409: Breath Play, Glory Holes and Janelle Monae (Dean Sage | John Patrick)

It's our first week in our new home and our new studio. So of course we have a cocktail and break down the health advisory from NYC that says glory holes, voyeurism/exhibitionism and other great kinks are now the new normal for us to stay safe and still get off. A timely and appropriate turn around for the city that tried so hard to root out kinks and such. And a great way to spend our time in isolation, discovering new things that turn us on. John is disappointed/excited that now more people will discover the things that he thought only he was into. Janelle Monae is our featured artist this week, who aside from being an amazing songwriter/singer/performer is also gender non-binary and while they don't care what pronoun you use, they do want to help move the conversation forward about non-binary individuals and gender in general. Dean relates to this being pansexual but heavily homo-romantic. Sometimes there isn't a great way to have a nuanced conversation. John likes boobs, but highlights why there are and should be so many different ways to understand our sexuality, attraction and romantic inclinations. While he doesn't enjoy giving pleasure to women, he could take a pegging like a champ. Finally, we recount how we screwed up on our first Instagram Live and the importance of fully charged batteries in all your toys. Check out BlackQueerTownHall.org and ColorOfChange.org if you are looking for ways to help support BLM and the end of systemic racism, especially in policing. John has been getting their newsletter and it's really helping him to learn more and understand just how much the white history books leave out of our own story.