Friending: A Real-World Cure For Loneliness

Send us Fan MailLoneliness doesn’t always look like sadness. Sometimes it looks like a full contact list, nonstop group chats, and a Friday night with nobody to actually meet. We sit down with Gaborg, co-founder of Friending, to talk about why modern life is producing more isolation in spite of constant connectivity and what we can do about it before it gets worse. If you’ve felt burned out by social media, tired of shallow scrolling, or unsure how to make friends as an adult, this conversation gets practical fast. We unpack the real-world problem Friending is built to solve: people mistaking screen time for friendship. Gaborg explains how the app pushes you toward in-person connection by limiting texting, matching you through shared-interest “RU In” activity cards, and focusing on people in your local area. We also dig into safety and trust, including third-party identity verification to reduce catfishing, a Bluetooth requirement to confirm friendship only after you meet face to face, and future plans for emergency alert features. Then we zoom out to the bigger cultural shift: AI companions, humanoid robots, and the risk of replacing human relationships with always-available tech. We talk about kids and teens losing basic social skills, why “no phones at the table” matters, and small habits that bring real community back into everyday life. If you’re ready to trade endless messages for actual coffee, walks, concerts, and conversations, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review telling us: what’s one screen habit you want to change?Support the show