EPISODE · Jul 20, 2025 · 40 MIN
From Army to Outlaw: Leaving Certainty for Purpose After 20 Years in Uniform
from Outlaws Podcast: Embracing Career Freedom · host Outlaws Podcast
What happens when the job you thought you'd stay in forever — the identity you've carried since age 17 — stops feeling right? In this episode, Shayla and Kate sit down with David (Dave) French, former infantry officer turned leadership coach, who spent 21 years in the Australian Army, followed by a second act in corporate consulting, and now has started his own business to follow his purpose. Dave describes a deeply personal reckoning with identity, values, and purpose - and a brave decision to walk away from stability and seniority to start over. This is not your classic “pivot” story. It’s about responsibility, guilt, family, and the hard emotional work of letting go — and what happens when you realise you don’t want to keep climbing the ladder. Together, they talk about: The identity shock of leaving a long-term career Why walking away from command roles was harder than it looked The pressure men feel to be providers — and how that shapes career choices How networks and connection can be two very different things What happens when your kid’s playdate leads to your next job The tough, transformative work Dave is now doing with incarcerated veterans This is a story about honour, courage, and values — not in war, but in everyday life. And it’s about knowing when to stay loyal… and when to let go. In this episode: – Dave’s story of turning down the job he thought he wanted – Why success stopped meaning rank and started meaning alignment – How military belonging compares to the identity of lawyers – Leaving consulting after confronting a values clash — and what happened next – The power of purpose, and how it guided every step that followed Resources & Links 📚Book - Man's Search for Meaning: Viktor E Frankel Find more episodes: www.outlawspodcast.com 📩 Subscribe to the newsletter for updates, tools & more If you loved this episode... – Share it with someone questioning their own career – Rate and review us on Apple or Spotify — it helps more Outlaws find us! Connect & Explore 🌐 Website: www.outlawspodcast.com 📸 Instagram: @the.outlaws.podcast 📘 Facebook: Outlaws Podcast Community 💼 LinkedIn: Outlaws Podcast 📬 Email: [email protected] 🎙️ Hosted by Shayla Strapps and Kate Offer 🎧 Produced by Shayla Strapps 🏠 Hosted on Podbean
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From Army to Outlaw: Leaving Security for Purpose After 20 Years in Uniform and Consulting What does it really take to walk away from the identity you’ve held since you were 17? In this episode of Outlaw Diaries, former Army officer and leadership consultant Dave French shares the story of leaving not just one, but two high-status careers — first in the military, then in corporate consulting — to rebuild a life around purpose, not pressure. From turning down a prestigious command role to supporting incarcerated veterans, Dave’s story is a raw, honest look at identity, guilt, values, and the quiet determination it takes to start again.
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