From Burnout to Turn-On: Rewiring Super Traits for Better Sex and Intimacy | Empowered Sexuality

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins to unpack how women’s “super traits”—including empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—can fuel success while also leading to burnout, people-pleasing, and a disconnection from pleasure and one's sexuality. Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs. You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships. If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body. Connect With the Guest – Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.comPodcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepleasurecollective Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources Explore exclusive sexual wellness offers and partner brands here: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured partners include: Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Courses & Programs:The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasurehttps://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practiceshttps://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/