From Contempt to Compassion: Healing Communication in Marriage | Healey Ikerd

Join us on this episode of the Soul Sense Podcast from Samaritan’s Well as we welcome back Healey Ikerd, Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Healy shares practical insights on building strong, faith-centered marriages, navigating communication challenges, trust, forgiveness, and cultivating joy even in difficult seasons.✨ Resources & Links:Healy’s private practice: HopeLife Counseling https://writtenbyhealey.comHealey’s podcast: Healthy & Redeemed https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healthy-redeemed-helping-christians-grow-in-mental/id1777581136📌 Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome & Introduction0:28 – About Healey Ikerd: Counselor, Author, Veteran, Grammy2:45 – Most Common Couple Struggles3:15 – Communication vs. Connection4:30 – Handling Criticism, Contempt & Stonewalling14:00 – Integrating Faith in Counseling18:00 – The Importance of Prayer in Marriage18:55 – The Importance of Having Fun Together27:30 – From Contempt to Compassion (C− to C+)33:15 – Handling Betrayal and Affairs38:47 – Rebuilding Trust Brick by Brick43:10 – Common Mistakes Couples Make49:50 – Closing Thoughts & Encouragement👍🔔 If this conversation touched your heart, please like, subscribe, and share. We'd love to hear what part of this episode hit home for you — comment below or send us a message! Your support helps us bring more meaningful conversations to light. We also value your feedback — please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.For more information on counseling and resources visit samaritanswell.com or email us at [email protected]. ✅ Stay connected:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samaritanswell/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/samaritanswelldallaSLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/samaritan%E2%80%99s-well/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samaritanswellcounseling?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc🎁 Free Relationship "Talk Time" Guide: https://samaritanswell.thinkific.com/products/digital_downloads/talk-time-guideMusic from Uppbeat:https://uppbeat.io/t/sky-toes/featherlight | License code: GAUXTZHWAYJROEFLhttps://uppbeat.io/t/northwestern/all-i-need | License code: LQFV9XYEQIWRJLNT