From Fear to Fun: Allow the child to approach

This episode explores why the first seconds of a paediatric consultation are so decisive. Children decide almost instantly whether they will engage or withdraw. By allowing them to approach the unknown at their own pace, we give them control, reduce fear, and open the door to cooperation.We cover:Why the first seconds determine whether a child will engageHow calling the child by name and waving signals friendliness and safetyWhy children need time and space to “check out” the doctorHow allowing the child to walk toward you grants autonomy and reduces fearHow to “lure” a child closer through curiosity and playful commentsWhy accepting a child’s refusal (e.g., not shaking hands) builds trustHow “ear‑television” triggers curiosity and shifts the tone of the encounterHow to address fear of pain or loss of control with clear, honest reassuranceWhy step‑by‑step explanations provide certainty and calmHow a simple high‑five seals trust and cooperationKey takeaway:Allowing the child to approach the unknown at their own pace gives them control over the encounter — and that control reduces fear and builds trust.