From Fetish To Fine Dining: Lucy Sweetkill's Journey as a NYC Dominatrix

In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with legendary New York dominatrix, educator, and dungeon owner Lucy Sweetkill for a raw conversation about kink, identity, business, and—yes—food. Lucy shares her path from the fashion world to moonlighting in an all-Asian dungeon she found on Backpage, eventually becoming a full-time pro dom and co-founder of La Maison de Rouge. She opens up about the emotional and spiritual labor of domination, navigating Asian fetishization, Buddhist approaches to pain, and the realities of running a kink space in NYC. They also dive into Lucy’s obsession with food culture—chef subs, sploshing, human trash bags, frozen Peeps as insertables, and humiliation scenes followed by Eleven Madison Park dinners. Smart, gritty, funny, and philosophical, this episode moves from cake-sitting chaos to gender journeys and building a sustainable, values-driven life as a creative and sex worker. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/lucy.sweetkill/?hl=en Support the Show 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie