From Self-Conscious to World Champion With Mary Cheyne

Mary began her career as a socially awkward computer programmer who hid behind her desk because she was too self-conscious.  Mary Cheyne with her Toastmaster Contest TrophiesBut today, as a World Champion of Public Speaking and first runner-up, out of 25,000 contestants from 14 countries, she is proof that transformation is possible.  How did she get there?   By understanding that becoming GREAT at public speaking isn’t just about the techniques of how to be a good speaker, rather it starts with discovering how to trust yourself first. Especially how to embrace the yin and yang of your feminine and masculine energy that allows you to show up powerfully in your communication and presentation, even in situations that would typically feel intimidating.  Guided by this zen philosophy, Mary created processes to help women communicate in a way where they feel seen, heard, valued, and respected by those they are speaking with.   Two fun facts about Mary are: She holds a karate black belt rank and plays the ukulele. Episode Highlights: The butterfly is like a lotus flower - (2:26) Working with grown-ups vs un-grown-ups - (7:50) Pivot from software training to speaking training and communications training - (14:17) The fear of rejection and how she came to understand it - (20:32) How do you get people to believe that this is possible? - (25:27) How do you get over mom guilt? - (31:03) What she loves about taekwondo - (37:03) Mary’s story of how showing authenticity and becoming in tune with what you really are can take you to the next level - (43:15) Be realistic with yourself and your capabilities - (48:43) What would the world look like if it was led by heart-centered women who care about each other? - (53:53) Key Takeaway: "The goal is to see hearts, a sincere heart of service that is particularly interested in seeing more women in positions of leadership. Just picture what the world would be like if it were run by heart-centered women who genuinely care and support one another." Resources:  Magnetic Podium