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EPISODE · Oct 28, 2025 · 36 MIN

From Self-Hatred to Self-Acceptance: A Cowboy's Journey Through Addiction with Shane Jacob

from Overcome Yourself The Podcast With Nicole Tuxbury · host Nicole

Send us Fan MailShane's powerful story of transformation begins with a familiar struggle—that persistent internal voice whispering "you're not good enough." Despite a relatively normal childhood, this nagging self-doubt led him down a destructive path of alcoholism lasting over twenty years, leaving behind a trail of broken relationships, legal troubles, and deep shame.The turning point came through an unexpected source—horses. After being thrown from a young colt and lying in the dirt blaming the animal, Shane heard the profound words that would change everything: "You did it to yourself." This moment of accountability sparked his journey toward recovery and self-acceptance.What makes this conversation extraordinary is Shane's ability to articulate how our deepest beliefs about ourselves shape every aspect of our lives. He explains how horses became his greatest teachers, demonstrating authentic communication and true forgiveness. "If you come to the barn with a secret, you don't have a secret," Shane reveals, highlighting how horses' hyper-awareness of human emotional states makes them perfect mirrors for our inner worlds.Shane challenges us to reconsider our relationship with difficult emotions. Rather than numbing discomfort through addiction or avoidance, he advocates feeling fully—even the painful parts—as essential for discovering lasting joy. "The most joy and happiness and peace that I've felt in my soul was a result of things that didn't feel good," he shares, offering a profound perspective on embracing life's full spectrum.The most transformative insight comes when Shane discusses healing. "You can change the past," he asserts, not by altering circumstances, but by changing what those experiences mean about our worth. His powerful message resonates throughout: "Regardless of what you have done and regardless of what has been done to you, you are 100% invaluable, priceless, worthy."Ready to transform your relationship with yourself? Try Shane's simple daily practice of monitoring negative self-talk, asking "Would I say this to someone I deeply love?" This five-minute habit could be your first step toward profound self-acceptance and the joy that follows. Support the showUnlock the secrets to online business success with these FREE and low-cost resources from Nicole! -Join our supportive FB Group to connect with like-minded entrepreneurs and get exclusive tips and advice: https://nicoletuxbury.com/facebook-Get your copy of the Best of the Profit Machine Summit Book shipped to you to learn from 15+ experts on how to turn your online business into a Profit Machine for only $13!  https://nicoletuxbury.com/profit-machine-summit-e-book/- Get instant access to the Coaches Guide To Print on Demand Video Course + Spreadsheet for only $17: https://nicoletuxbury.com/product/coaches-guide-to-pod-with-resource-file/Explore these amazing resources and start your journey to success today! Ready to skyrocket your online business?Book your call to discuss working together one-on-one with me to craft custom strategies and implement powerful systems that will help you smash your goals and unleash your business's full potential!Don't wait – let's kickstart your journey to success right now! Book your call with me today!  https://nicoletuxbury.com/introcall...

Send us Fan Mail Shane's powerful story of transformation begins with a familiar struggle—that persistent internal voice whispering "you're not good enough." Despite a relatively normal childhood, this nagging self-doubt led him down a destructive path of alcoholism lasting over twenty years, leaving behind a trail of broken relationships, legal troubles, and deep shame. The turning point came through an unexpected source—horses. After being thrown from a young colt and lying in the dirt bla...

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