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May 10, 2025 18 min

From Settling to Self-Worth: Learning to Choose Yourself

from Xena’s Resilient Warrior Podcast Hosted by Larrissa Esperanza

In this raw and transparent episode, I open up about my two-year experience in a polyamorous relationship where I constantly felt the need to prove I was the better option—driven by abandonment wounds and a history of chasing love just to feel chosen. I reflect on how these same patterns showed up in my life coaching business, where I once charged only $35 for work that held far greater value. This episode is about recognizing when you’ve been settling—in love, business, and self-worth—and deciding to reclaim your power. If you’ve ever struggled with abandonment, low self-esteem, or undervaluing yourself, this conversation is for you. Grab my books on Amazon: • I Hated Me Until I Fell in Love with Me — https://a.co/d/0nCKoVo • The Shadows That Broke — https://a.co/d/9gqwS4s

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