EPISODE · May 14, 2026 · 1H 11M
Gabor Mate REPLAY: In the Realm of Dopey Ghosts PLUS The (other) Guru that Erotically Drank My Pee - Trauma, Addiction, Recovery
from Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction · host Dave & Chris
LISTEN WITHOUT ADS ON PATREON: www.patron.com/dopeypodcast Summary Dave opens Dopey Greatest Hits with an AI Dopey song from Josh Clark, updates the chaos around Katz’s, Action Bronson, Paul Wall, the Divided Sky festival, Susan’s birthday, and the Dopey short film festival. A listener voicemail tells a wild guru story involving opium, coke, mushrooms, MDMA, hot springs, and pee drinking. Dave reads Patreon and Spotify comments from the Gilbert Trejo replay before playing the Gabor Maté episode. In the Gabor Maté interview, Dave and Dr. Maté talk addiction, trauma, shame, ADD, dopamine, recovery, psychedelics, ayahuasca, the “stupid friend,” food addiction, and why addiction is not the primary problem but an attempt to soothe pain. Dr. Maté explains that recovery means getting yourself back. PLUS MORE Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Timestamp Notes 00:02 – AI Dopey song opens the episode 02:14 – Dave welcomes listeners to Thursday Dopey Greatest Hits 02:45 – Josh Clark AI Dopey music and “ghosts in the machine” 03:30 – Gabor Maté won the Patreon poll 04:10 – Gabor Maté booked to return 04:39 – Katz’s, Action Bronson, Paul Wall, and Fuck That’s Delicious 05:20 – Dave’s crazy weekend: Katz’s, Vermont, Divided Sky, Susan’s birthday 06:10 – Trying to get Jeff Ross on Dopey 06:35 – Listener voicemail: old hippie, age gap, and pee-drinking drug story 07:00 – Baba, Encinitas, sushi, sake, opium, and red wine 08:00 – San Francisco Thanksgiving, red roses, and Harbin Hot Springs 08:30 – Coke, wine, nude hot springs, and hot/cold therapy 09:20 – Amma the hugging saint and nitrous mention 10:00 – Mushrooms, Kirtan chants, and awkward threesome suggestion 11:00 – MDMA in Ojai and pee drinking 12:10 – Dave reacts to the predatory guru story 13:00 – Dave asks for more weird guru stories 13:30 – Patreon comments from Gilbert Trejo replay 14:20 – Listeners praise Gilbert and ask for Gabor Maté 15:10 – Spotify comments on Gilbert Trejo 16:20 – Mr. Jason celebrates eight months sober 17:00 – Shooting dope in fingertips and Gilbert’s extremeness 17:40 – “Don’t whip your dick out at the Grove” 18:00 – Car wash dope story and the movie Candy 19:00 – Permanent Midnight and Jerry Stahl 20:20 – Dave wonders if Gilbert saw Candy 20:50 – Dr. Gabor Maté intro 21:45 – Gabor discusses The Myth of Normal 22:20 – Addiction as a normal response to abnormal culture 23:00 – Addiction as an attempt to soothe pain 24:00 – “Why the pain?” 24:45 – Dave talks about overprotective Jewish parents 25:20 – Gabor reframes “overprotective” as controlling 26:30 – Recovery means getting yourself back 27:50 – Gabor’s compulsive classical CD shopping addiction 29:30 – Addiction definition: temporary relief, craving, harm, inability to stop 30:20 – Lying, shame, and shopping addiction 31:00 – Writing In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts helped Gabor heal 31:45 – Downtown Eastside patients understood Gabor’s addiction 33:00 – Talking to addicts vs. Tim Ferriss types 34:20 – Replacing the word “addict” 35:00 – Badge of courage vs. harmful identity 37:30 – Helping people find the true self 38:00 – Dave’s heroin and inner peace 39:00 – Shame comes before addiction 40:00 – The “stupid friend” and childhood self-blame 41:20 – Negative self-talk and Donald Trump “stable genius” example 42:20 – Trauma as a wound 43:20 – Toxic culture, medication, and trauma 44:50 – Diabetes, stress, junk food, and trauma 47:20 – Food companies and addictive sugar/salt/fat 48:00 – Dave’s nighttime ice cream/cereal/chocolate syrup soothing 49:45 – Gabor on work addiction and attention 51:00 – Fame, ego, and Gabor’s wife understanding him 52:10 – ADD and addiction connection 53:00 – ADD as childhood stress and dopamine dysfunction 54:30 – Dave’s school struggles and downer drugs 55:20 – Heroin ritual and dopamine 56:50 – Ritalin, Adderall, motivation, and focus 58:00 – Gabor’s own stimulant use while writing 59:30 – Dave asks about Adderall for writing 01:00:20 – Gabor tells Dave to organize his life around the book 01:01:40 – The Last Jewish Waiter: How I Got Off of Heroin at Katz’s Deli 01:02:00 – Ayahuasca and psychedelic healing 01:03:20 – Gabor’s first ayahuasca ceremony 01:04:30 – Crying when a baby coos during ceremony 01:05:30 – Shamans, healing chants, and community 01:06:30 – Psychedelic therapy and integration 01:07:15 – Dave wraps with Gabor 01:08:00 – Dopey short film festival announced for June 26 01:08:54 – “Good So Bad” outro song Title Ideas
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