Get More Loving Relationships & Friendships With This Shift
An episode of the Heal Your Codependency with Marshall Burtcher podcast, hosted by Marshall Burtcher, titled "Get More Loving Relationships & Friendships With This Shift" was published on March 31, 2023 and runs 12 minutes.
March 31, 2023 ·12m · Heal Your Codependency with Marshall Burtcher
Summary
Get More Loving Relationships & Friendships With This Shift The shift is simple: My responsibility is to love and care for myself and choose connections with people who show they love and care for me. I am not responsible for getting people to love me, choose me, respect me, or value me. Learn how to start implementing this in today's episode! Caring for yourself: - Emotional warmth, respect, and valuing your pain and your pleasure. - Respecting your lived experiences,...
Episode Description
Get More Loving Relationships & Friendships With This Shift
The shift is simple: My responsibility is to love and care for myself and choose connections with people who show they love and care for me.
I am not responsible for getting people to love me, choose me, respect me, or value me.
Learn how to start implementing this in today's episode!
Caring for yourself:
- Emotional warmth, respect, and valuing your pain and your pleasure.
- Respecting your lived experiences, senses, and awareness
- Respecting and following through with your boundaries
- Following your values and principles
- Loving yourself despite rejection, success, failure, acceptance
Signals others give off that they care about you:
- Respect boundaries and shares their boundaries kindly, clearly
- Responsive to complaints, requests, and corrections
- Treats you with positive warm regard (doesn't assume the worst about you)
- Connects with you where you're at
- Shares their own feelings and perspectives kindly
- Seeks consent
- Expresses gratitude, concern, and mindfulness of you
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[The 8 Factors That Heal Codependency Permanently Workshop]
This 1-day training is for codependents, perfectionists, and people-pleasers who have struggled to find healing in their private therapy or self-help efforts.
I will show you why your efforts to heal from codependency haven't worked, why that is NOT your fault, and I will give you my proven strategy that makes ends your needs for codependency permanently.
Specifically, you will learn:
1) What the actual cause of codependent behaviors is and how that unlocks permanent healing
2) The 3 Necessities that drive your well-being and happiness
3) The 8 factors that end codependency permanently while creating a life you enjoy
You will also receive your opportunities to enroll in my 8-week foundation Live training, The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings. These trainings guide through implementing the essential practices and concepts that nurture the 8 Factors of Well-being in your daily life.
Here are the workshop details:
Date: April 26, 2023
Class Time: 11am and 6pm Mountain Time (I teach it twice for your convenience)
Investment: Free
Replay Availability: The replay will be available April 27, 2023
Reserve your seat here: https://workshop.freetheself.com
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