Getting your sh*t together for yourself

Getting yourself together is the hardest yet best thing you can do for yourself.  People will always think they are entitled in the relationships and that is where conflict arises.  There are people who are willing to work on their shi*t, and then they are people always playing the victim because they don't want to work on their sh*t.  If you are the "needy" insecure one in the relationship, the liar and cheater, the spy, the micromanager, the clam, the controller, the people pleaser.. you need to work on your stuff.  No, it's not criticizing, it's guidance.  It's a means for you to grow and live happily with yourself and with others.