Ghosted

On "The U Problem" this week, Dr. P takes a call from a woman who is tired of being ghosted. She finds that after three or four months of dating, the men she's seeing become emotionally unavailable. She wants to know how to shift her energy and find a healthier relationship. Dr. P quickly identifies the caller's "you problem"—she's putting up with men who are already emotionally unavailable. Dr. P's advice is clear: stop sugarcoating, blow up the relationship if it's not working, and move on. You have no time to waste on people who aren't ready to commit - "If you can't provide me with x, y, z, take a hike."