Girl, The Problem Isn’t You - It’s The Way You Are Seeing Yourself w/ This Black Girl

In this conversation, Dom and This Black Girl who created Top Notch Eyewear explore the themes of vulnerability, self-love, and the challenges of navigating divorce. They discuss the importance of identity shifts post-divorce, the opportunities that arise from personal growth, and the significance of parenting through change. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care, setting boundaries, and the impact of mental health on parenting. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, creating a relatable and empowering dialogue for listeners.TakeawaysSelf-love is crucial for personal growth.Grieving the loss of identity is a common experience post-divorce.Opportunities often arise after significant life changes.Consistency in parenting is essential for children's well-being.Mental health plays a vital role in effective parenting.Setting boundaries is necessary for self-care.It's important to check in with oneself regularly.Learning to say no without guilt is empowering.Children benefit from understanding their emotions and boundaries.Personal growth can lead to healthier relationships.Sound Bites"give that same love to yourself""graduation was my rebirth""you don't marry to get divorced""keep my cup full""the takers don't have none"Chapters00:00Welcome to Vulnerability01:12Navigating Divorce and Self-Love03:54Identity Shift and Healing07:49Opportunities After Divorce12:04The Danger of Leaving15:12Parenting Through Change21:07Checking In with Yourself27:09Empowerment and BoundariesSend us Fan MailSupport the showThank you for tuning in to Girl, Come Sit With Me. If this episode resonated with you, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use this conversation.Follow @GirlComeSitWithMe on Instagram for episode clips, behind-the-scenes moments, healing conversations, event updates, and community support.Have a story, topic idea, or collaboration request? Email [email protected] to more episodes and stay connected at GirlComeSitWithMe.com/podcast.I’m rooting for you. Make sure you root for me too.