Give Us A Min Ep 23 Soft Girl Error

Unfiltered. Hilarious. Necessary. Welcome to Give Us A Min — the unapologetic group chat you didn’t know you needed. Hosted by MattViolinist, Carmen, and the newest voice in the mix, Chef AJ (Alonge), this show blends real-life experiences with raw conversations about culture, relationships, parenthood, growth, and everything in between. Whether you’ve been through it or you’re figuring it out, this trio brings laughter, heart, and honesty as they reflect on childhood memories, adulting struggles, and what it takes to break generational cycles — without losing who you are. If you're into real talk with people who feel like family, Give Us A Min is your new favorite listen. In this episode: Reuniting after an 8-month break Introducing new co-host Chef AJ Hilarious childhood throwbacks and transformations Real-life talk on parenting stress and joy The challenges of breaking generational patterns Accountability vs. survival mode Culture, identity, and growing up Caribbean-American