Go deeply into it

You must be willing to access or uncover the bitterness, and that is what relationship is for. We know this sounds grim, but you set the perception of separate ones in place to escape perceptually from what actually Is. This means in every relationship with any separate aspect–a person, an object, a concept, a situation–you must plunge in, feel the bitterness and density, and walk through it with us to the true light. This means you must leave any attachment to the false light–ego’s positive–behind. Read here "We Gotta Get Outta this Place" - The Animals