Got Baggage? | When People Keep Hurting You | Part 3 | Senior Pastor Keith Stewart

Send us Fan MailGOT BAGGAGE? When People Keep Hurting You | Part 3 Senior Pastor Keith StewartMay 10, 2026Few things are more difficult than forgiving someone for the same hurt twice. You thought the matter was settled. You prayed through it. You chose grace. You started putting the pieces of your heart back together. Then it happened again. Repeated wounds don’t just cause pain—they weaken trust, exhaust the soul and make us question whether reconciliation is even possible. So what does God say when forgiveness becomes a cycle instead of a single moment? This Sunday, we’ll talk honestly about repeated hurt, difficult relationships and the kind of forgiveness that seems almost impossible.1. What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation? Why is that distinction so important? 2. The message distinguished between a “mistake” and a “pattern.” Why is recognizing patterns important in relationships? 3. Have you ever experienced any part of the “cycle of abuse” described in the message (tension, explosion, honeymoon, repetition)? What made it difficult to recognize or address?4. Why do you think Christians sometimes struggle with setting healthy boundaries?5. Which unhealthy responses do people most often use with difficult people?• Reasoning with the unreasonable• Excusing destructive behavior• Cajoling and threatening   • Reacting and retaliatingWhich one do you tend toward personally?6. Why can boundaries actually be an expression of love rather than rejection? 7. Pastor Keith shared how Brenda’s boundary became a turning point toward healing and growth. What does that teach us about truth, consequences, and change? 8. What does it practically look like to: forgive someone, release bitterness, and still wisely protect your heart?9. Is there a relationship in your life where God may be asking you to establish healthier boundaries?Close by praying for:wisdom,courage,healing from past wounds,and the grace to forgive without enabling destructive behavior.