沟通：有什么沟通方面的好技巧

What is the most outstanding communication life hack?Phil Callaghan, Author of 'Presenting Power: Confident Public Speaking'Answered Mar 31This hack is powerful, yet simple, because most people assume communication is something you broadcast to others - something which emanates from you.No, I’m not going to tell you to become a better listener, though that is good advice for most people.For me, communication involves understanding others, thinking about how you can speak in the language in which they think, and bringing deeply thoughtful responses out of them.To do all of that, you need to ask questions. Really good questions.Here’s a question that most people don’t ask often enough:“What do you mean?”What makes that such a good question?In my opinion, most people (myself included) make too many assumptions about other people. We all assume that other people are like us, that they like the things we like and are interested in the things that fascinate us.By asking “what do you mean?” you can open up a new world - the world that someone else is living in. We can all see the same things, but we see some of them more than others and they hold different meaning for each of us.That’s why this one question is a serious short-cut to deeply effective communication.It’s like an open door into their mind. Try it for a few days before deciding whether you agree or not.If you want to communicate in an outstanding way and open your mind to amazing new worlds, ask more questions - especially “What do you mean?”