Green Flags We Missed in Our 20s: What Actually Matters in a Partner

In this episode, we unpack the green flags we didn’t recognize in our early twenties and why so many of us were taught to prioritize the wrong things in relationships.We talk about what we were told to look for in partners versus what we would actually want for our future kids, and why emotional consistency, safety, and regulation matter far more than charm, intensity, or potential.This conversation is about unlearning outdated dating narratives, redefining healthy love, and choosing partners who feel steady, not confusing. If you’re navigating relationships in your late 20s or early 30s and learning to value peace over chaos, this episode is for you.