Grief And OCD with Bryn Murphy

Send us Fan MailWhat if the heart of OCD isn’t just compulsion and control, but grief steady, daily, and often unnamed? We sit down with our returning guest, Bryn Murphy, a clinician who lives with OCD, to map the hidden losses that shape this diagnosis: time swallowed by rituals, spontaneity crushed by rigidity, identity tugged by relentless doubt, and relationships frayed by reassurance cycles. From there, we build a gentler, fuller way forward, one that pairs evidence-based therapy with grief literacy, community care, and practices that restore presence in the moments that matter most.We talk candidly about how Western grief norms rush people back to “functioning” and how that pressure collides with the realities of OCD. You’ll hear why ERP and inference-based CBT remain essential and where they can miss the emotional core unless we add rituals of mourning, narrative reframes, and family involvement. We unpack egodystonic thoughts, shame, and the nervous system’s hijack, then offer simple prompts that help reclaim a minute, a conversation, or a sunset from OCD’s demands. Our guest also shares personal stories of loss, including parental death, and how openness, not secrecy, created space for healing and resilience.This conversation challenges stigma and ableism by humanizing OCD and acknowledging its surprising gifts alongside very real pain: meticulous care that serves craft, deep empathy born from struggle, and hard-won capacity for presence. If you’ve ever wondered who you might have been without OCD or how to live more fully with it, you’ll find language, tools, and hope here. Listen, reflect, and share with someone who needs a gentler map. If this resonated, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what loss are you finally ready to name?Bryn Murphy @ www.blueravenfamilycounseling.com A Hero's Welcome Podcast  © Maria Laquerre-Diego & Liliana Baylon