Grief Has No Timeline

The grief journey has no timeline and so, for bereaved parents, the first year can be especially tough, because it's full of missed milestones: first tooth, first steps, first birthday. In this episode, we chat with Emma Hansen about how she coped after her son, Reid, was stillborn. She reflects on how she managed the first year missing Reid, and how she and her family found meaningful ways to honour him. We discuss why it’s important to let yourself ‘sit in the shit of it’ and why even when you are grieving, you are still living.Your feedback is important to us. Please share your thoughts on this episode of Stillbirth Happens - let's talk by participating in this survey. Thank you for your participation.Notes:Blog: Born Still but Still Born by Emma HansenStill: A Memoir of Love, Loss and Motherhood by Emma HansenSecond Firsts by Christina RasmussenOn Death and Dying (1969) by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross; includes her framework of 5 stages of grief which include anger, denial, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. The 5 stages of grief and other lies that don’t help anyone by Megan DevineReid’s Reads by Emma Hansen, family and friendsDonating milk after stillbirth(http://www.bcwomens.ca/our-services/labour-birth-post-birth-care/milk-bank/donating-milk)Reid’s CornerGrief is love with no place to go, quote by Jamie Anderson On Being with Krista Tippett: Guest Rachel Naomi Remen “How we live with loss”. Original aired August 11th, 2005Stillbirth Happens – let’s talk(http://www.bcwomens.ca/health-info/pregnancy-parenting/stillbirth-newborn-loss/podcast-stillbirth-happens)After the loss of your baby (http://www.bcwomens.ca/health-info/pregnancy-parenting/stillbirth-newborn-loss)Lactation after loss (http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW1465_LactationAfterLoss.pdf)Glossary:Cervidil® (dinoprostone) – a medication delivered through a vaginal insert that assists with labour by softening the cervix and preparing it for birth.