Grief, Parts Work & the Power of Internal Family Systems | Emma Tomes

Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!Special Offer: Our friends at Cozy Earth are offering Say YES to Yourself! listeners an exclusive 40% off. Use code SAYYES at checkout to treat yourself to luxury  bedding and loungewear you'll never want to take off. Visit CozyEarth.com.The Say YES Summit is coming!Join us August 5–6, 1–4 PM EST for a free, virtual gathering designed to help you say YES to the next season of your life—with courage, joy, and unapologetic self-trust. Save your spot here. Use code FREEDOM to join us for free. Welcome to the Say YES to Yourself! Podcast—the show for midlife women, empty nesters, and those navigating major life transitions like divorce, reinvention, and rediscovery. If you're ready to shed old roles and finally put yourself first, you're in the right place.In this soulful conversation, Wendy is joined by therapist and grief specialist Emma Tomes for a deep dive into Internal Family Systems, self-leadership, and the powerful (and often surprising) ripple effects of saying yes to yourself. From unburdening old beliefs to embracing every part of who you are, this episode invites listeners to pause, reflect, and reclaim their inner authority.They explore:How to recognize and work with your “parts”—especially when they’re in conflictWhy grief extends far beyond death—and how to honor it in all forms of lossWhat it looks like to lead your life from self-compassion, not self-abandonmentConnect with Emma:LinkedInMentalHealthPeople.co.ukReferenced in this Episode:Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire by Jen Hatmaker: amazon.com/Fierce-Free-Full-Fire-Glorious/dp/071808814X?tag=syty-20________________________________________________________________________________________Connect with Wendy:LinkedinInstagram: @wendy.harropFacebook: Phineas Wright HouseWebsite: Phineas Wright House PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated Experience and TravelInterested in being a guest on the show? Send your pitch to [email protected] Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat!If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.