"Griefmas" & Griefy Holidays: Your Survival Guide for When Life Doesn't Feel Merry or Bright

In this episode of the Grief and Light podcast, host Nina Rodriguez discusses the complexities of experiencing grief during the holiday season. She emphasizes the normalization of grief, especially during times that are typically associated with joy and celebration. Nina shares various coping strategies, the importance of acknowledging one's feelings, and the healing power of creating new traditions, reclaiming a sense of agency, communicating our needs, and setting boundaries. She encourages listeners to lean into their grief and joy, and to give themselves permission to pivot, as needed. The episode serves as a resource for those navigating the difficult emotions that arise during the holidays.•••Click here to watch on YouTube•••   TakeawaysGrief can feel heavier during the holidays.It's normal to feel a contrast between grief and holiday joy.Acknowledge and honor your grief; don't push it down.You have the power to create new traditions.Setting boundaries is crucial for emotional well-being.It's okay to not feel merry and bright during the holidays.Lean into moments of joy when they arise.Grief needs to be witnessed, not fixed.Give yourself permission to pivot and change plans.Self-care practices are essential during this time.Referenced in Episode: Holiday Scripts for Grievers: What to say when the season doesn't feel merry or bright***Join THE COMMUNITY | A virtual home for grievers. Access support anytime, anywhere.***Connect with Nina Rodriguez:IG: @griefandlightWebsite: griefandlight.comHire Nina as a guest speaker1:1 Grief Support (Use code GRIEFMAS25 for a 25% discount on any 1:1 grief support service. Valid until January 30th, 2025.)Subscribe to my newsletterView upcoming eventsJoin Grief and Light: The CommunityDisclaimer: griefandlight.com/safetyanddisclaimersBuy me a CoffeeSend us Fan MailSupport the showGrief and Light is an award-winning, independent podcast exploring the honest, messy, and deeply human experience of loss. We're on a mission to foster a more grief-informed, hopeful world, one conversation at a time. 🏆 Ear Worthy Best Life Lessons 2026 · TalkDeath Readers' Choice Best Podcast 2025 · Women Who Podcast Awards 2025 Winner · Podground Editor's PickNew episodes wherever you watch or listen.Connect with Nina Rodriguez:griefandlight.com@griefandlightResting Grief Face on SubstackThank you for listening! If this conversation resonated with you:✅ Share this episode with someone who needs it✅ Follow Grief and Light so you never miss a conversation✅ Leave a review! It helps this podcast reach more heartsDisclaimer: griefandlight.com/safetyanddisclaimers