Group Therapy Thursday

It's Group Therapy Thursday! Submit your letters here:https://www.93q.com/shows/ted-and-amy/group-therapy-thursday/  Dear Ted and Amy,I love my sister but I’m really angry right now. I feel like she ruined my recent wedding even though I think (I hope) her intentions were good. She and I are very different. She is a total extrovert – gorgeous, funny, athletic, musically talented – you name it. I am not. I’ve struggled with self-esteem for as long as I can remember. I have always tried to be very supportive of her and her of me. But it’s hard to compete so most times, I don’t even try. Which is why I was very specific that on my wedding day, I, for once, wanted to be the center of attention. She was my maid of honor and of course looked beautiful. But I specially asked her not to make herself the center of attention during my big day. I wanted to be the special one. All was fine . . . until the speeches. Instead of just a toast of how honored she is to be my sister and how happy she is for me, SHE DECIDED TO SING IT. Yes, in her beautiful voice, with lyrics that she wrote about me and my husband. It was very good. Everyone loved it. But then guess what? The whole night became about her. People kept coming up to her telling her how funny she is, and what a great voice she has, and how she made the wedding so fun! Really?? All I could think about is that she did it again. I haven’t said anything because I know everyone will tell me I’m jealous and insecure. And maybe I am. But I’m also very hurt because I specifically asked her NOT to do exactly this. Am I overreacting or should I call her out on it for putting a damper on MY special day?Signed,Stealing My Spotlight in SyracuseSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.