Growing Up with Autism: A Sibling’s Perspective on Inchstones and Empathy

In this powerful episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Laurie Dove and her teenage daughter Lyla to talk about something often overlooked in the autism parenting conversation - the experience of siblings. What unfolds is an honest, emotional, and deeply thoughtful reflection on what it means to grow up alongside a sibling with autism. Lyla shares how being the oldest has shaped her in ways most kids her age wouldn’t understand. How she’s learned to be patient, protective, and tuned in to the unspoken. She talks about moments of confusion, loneliness, and fierce love all woven into the fabric of her everyday life. Laurie opens up about parenting both her neurodivergent and neurotypical children, and the tightrope walk of meeting everyone's needs while holding space for their different experiences. Together, they reflect on how their family has grown stronger because of them. They also share the impact of social media, highlighting how it can both isolate and educate. Through their stories, they remind us of the crucial importance of listening to the voices of siblings, the quiet heroes of many autism families. The episode ends on a note of hope ... that by sharing real stories, families can find healing, connection, and the courage to keep showing up for each other. Click HERE find Laurie's Instagram, Everyday Autism Essentials