Guest Terry P: Recovery Isn’t Boring — You’re Just in the Wrong Room

In this episode, Brian sits down with Terry P, a connection from early sobriety during the pandemic when both were trying to find something that actually worked. What started as a small Zoom meeting with four guys grew into a global recovery community with over 10,000 people passing through—driven by Terry’s approach of making recovery something people want to be part of instead of something they endure. They break down why so many people walk into meetings and feel disconnected, what separates “checking a box” from actually building a sober life, and how energy, structure, and community change the experience. The conversation moves into the long version of the Serenity Prayer and why ideas like “taking the world as it is” and being “reasonably happy” are directly applicable to anxiety, control, and everyday mental health. They also unpack common relapse patterns like “I stopped” and “I’ve got this,” why there’s no graduating from the steps, what step work looks like years into sobriety, and the daily structure that actually keeps someone sober. The episode closes with a grounded breakdown of the Promises of recovery—not as theory, but as outcomes that show up through consistent action. Check out the website for articles published weekly: www.naplesintegratedrecovery.com Want to work together? I see psychotherapy clients in Florida: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/brian-granneman-naples-fl/1153470 I also offer accountability, coaching, and sober companion services. Send an email: [email protected]