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EPISODE · Jul 2, 2026 · 1H 3M

Had to Ask: Robyn Hurder on Rejection, Smash, Motherhood, and Finding Joy Beyond Broadway

from Had to Ask · host Melanie Sutrathada

Robyn Hurder (⁠@robynhurder⁠) has spent decades building one of Broadway’s most impressive careers, not through overnight success, but through resilience, hard work, and an unwavering love for performing.In this episode of Had to Ask, Robyn joins Melanie Sutrathada (⁠@melaniesutra⁠) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about her journey from a young dancer in Maine to becoming one of Broadway’s leading ladies.Together, they discuss the reality of rejection, the unexpected pressure that comes with starring roles, manifestation and the Law of Attraction, injuries and identity, balancing motherhood with a demanding career, and why creating a full life outside of theatre has become more important than ever.Plus: Bebe Neuwirth calling her "Marilyn," roller skating in Starlight Express, Renaissance Fairs, Medieval Times, professional wrestling, and the hobbies that keep her grounded.Chapters: 01:45 — Becoming a triple threat and chasing Broadway dreams03:02 — Full-circle moments with Bebe Neuwirth and meeting her idols 07:07 — The brutal Cats audition that taught her about rejection16:20 — Manifestation, energy, and the Law of Attraction 30:08 — Smash, leading lady pressure, and redefining success33:07 — Injuries, identity, and the mental toll of performing44:28 — Motherhood, normal life, and finding joy beyond the industry 51:54 — Renaissance Fairs, Medieval Times, and embracing her eccentric hobbies 57:16 — What she's waiting for in this next chapter of her lifeFollow Robyn Hurder (⁠@robynhurder⁠) and Had to Ask (⁠@hadtoaskpod⁠) for more bold, unfiltered conversations — hosted by Melanie Sutrathada.Co-produced and edited by Joseph Loper.Special thanks to Thompson Central Park New York for being the perfect space for this conversation with Had to Ask.⭐️ Loved the episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs the reminder that success rarely happens overnight, rejection doesn't define you, and a meaningful life is always bigger than your career.

Robyn Hurder (⁠@robynhurder⁠) has spent decades building one of Broadway’s most impressive careers, not through overnight success, but through resilience, hard work, and an unwavering love for performing.In this episode of Had to Ask, Robyn joins Melanie Sutrathada (⁠@melaniesutra⁠) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about her journey from a young dancer in Maine to becoming one of Broadway’s leading ladies.Together, they discuss the reality of rejection, the unexpected pressure that comes with starring roles, manifestation and the Law of Attraction, injuries and identity, balancing motherhood with a demanding career, and why creating a full life outside of theatre has become more important than ever.Plus: Bebe Neuwirth calling her "Marilyn," roller skating in Starlight Express, Renaissance Fairs, Medieval Times, professional wrestling, and the hobbies that keep her grounded.Chapters: 01:45 — Becoming a triple threat and chasing Broadway dreams03:02 — Full-circle moments with Bebe Neuwirth and meeting her idols 07:07 — The brutal Cats audition that taught her about rejection16:20 — Manifestation, energy, and the Law of Attraction 30:08 — Smash, leading lady pressure, and redefining success33:07 — Injuries, identity, and the mental toll of performing44:28 — Motherhood, normal life, and finding joy beyond the industry 51:54 — Renaissance Fairs, Medieval Times, and embracing her eccentric hobbies 57:16 — What she's waiting for in this next chapter of her lifeFollow Robyn Hurder (⁠@robynhurder⁠) and Had to Ask (⁠@hadtoaskpod⁠) for more bold, unfiltered conversations — hosted by Melanie Sutrathada.Co-produced and edited by Joseph Loper.Special thanks to Thompson Central Park New York for being the perfect space for this conversation with Had to Ask.⭐️ Loved the episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs the reminder that success rarely happens overnight, rejection doesn't define you, and a meaningful life is always bigger than your career.

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