孩子：你能对孩子说出的最伤害其心理状态的话是什么

What is the most psychologically damaging thing you can say to a child?Ellie WoodsAnswered May 11There are many right answers.My mother and I were abused by her husband. One day in a car (probably driving to school) my mother, who is very religious, commented that we must’ve done something bad in a past life to deserve what he did to us. I was about twelve and also quite religious, but I convinced myself that our deity must’ve had a different reason for making us suffer, or the system screwed up and we weren’t supposed to be here, and not to think too much about it.Now that I’m an atheist and a bit older, I wonder what could’ve happened to my emotional well-being if I had actually internalized that. I probably would’ve ended up in another abusive relationship as an adult if I thought that being abused was all that should happen to me.