Handling Parenting Fear

Do you ever look at your kids and get scared? Be assured, you’re not alone. We’ve been there. It is sometimes paralyzing to think about parenting kids who are growing through unbelievable amounts of change, at the same time that they’re engaging with a rapidly changing and frightening world. In some ways this is nothing new. Did you ever hear what Mark Twain said about teenagers? "When a child turns 12 you should put him in a barrel, nail the lid down and feed him through a knot hole. When he turns 16, plug the hole!" While parents should be cautious, watchful, and discerning, we can’t allow ourselves to fall victim to fear. The Jesus we serve has conquered fear and sent His promised Holy Spirit to comfort and guide us. As the parents of teens, we’ve learned that the comforting words the angel of the Lord spoke to shepherds keeping watch over their flocks by night are words for us: “Do not be afraid.” Parents, find your rest and refuge in Christ.