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EPISODE · Aug 3, 2025 · 1H 11M

Hardboiled & Hopeful: Single in 2025

from It's Not Me, It's You · host Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo

It’s giving chaos, delusion, clarity… and confidence. In this episode, your favorite sibling duo is back in the studio talking all things modern love. From dating just to smash vs actually building something real, red flag hobbies, and everything in between.Matt introduces us to the term hardboiled (aka confident with a side of gusto), while they both try to make sense of dating in 2025. Is the honeymoon phase real? Are grand gestures still a thing? Are people still looking for marriage, or just vibes?We shot from the hip and kept it all the way real, because that’s what we do. 🎯💘Pull up, stay delusional but hopeful, and don’t forget to follow the pod.New episodes every week. 🎙️💌

It’s giving chaos, delusion, clarity… and confidence. In this episode, your favorite sibling duo is back in the studio talking all things modern love. From dating just to smash vs actually building something real, red flag hobbies, and everything in between.Matt introduces us to the term hardboiled (aka confident with a side of gusto), while they both try to make sense of dating in 2025. Is the honeymoon phase real? Are grand gestures still a thing? Are people still looking for marriage, or just vibes?We shot from the hip and kept it all the way real, because that’s what we do. 🎯💘Pull up, stay delusional but hopeful, and don’t forget to follow the pod.New episodes every week. 🎙️💌

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