Hello, On The Daily family, welcome back to the show. I am really excited about this episode because I've actually never, I don't think I've ever done an episode like this, but I asked my friend, Mads Page, if she would be a hamster in my, or guinea pig in my experiment. I'm doing a live human design reading on the show. So I wanted you to see kind of what it would be like to do a human design because I know there's a lot of people who always want to do a human design reading, but they don't really know what they entail.
Also, I think it's just a super helpful thing to hear other people's because it'll help you kind of settle into your own design, especially if you resonate in any way. So today you're gonna hear a recording of mine and Mads' actual human design reading. It's about an hour long and you can absolutely skip ahead at any parts, but just listen to it and see if it resonates with you. And if so, know that I always have human design readings available and you can always purchase one as well as I have two human design offers coming up.
I have a course that is coming out on July 1st and it's called Intuition Authority Power, which is literally human design for business. So if you have a business and you are wanting to run your business from a place of alignment as we talk about in this episode, I'm gonna teach you how to do that. And you can click the link in our show notes to register for that or if you have any questions, you can come find me on Instagram at Danielle on the Daily. But if human design is something you're interested in, I highly suggest that you listen to this episode.
Hey friend, welcome to On the Daily. I'm your host, Danielle McCleary, and I'm a quantum business coach. I'm the host of this podcast. I'm a multi six figure entrepreneur, co-founder and president of Hype U Media and CEO of Danielle on the Daily Coaching.
What I'm really interested in is helping you live a life and have a business that is a full body yes. So through all of my education and all of my experience, I'm bringing you two episodes a week where I will guide you and give you the tools necessary to scale a massive sustainable and sexy business using your intuition, wealth energetics, and human design. What we can call it is business biohacking. So if you're down for that, then I say let's fricking go.
I'm so glad you're here. Before we get into that though, I want to tell you about another show in Hype U. We had so, we've had so many amazing trainings in there already. And there's this library that you can listen to all these on-demand trainings.
But at the very base of all of this, inside of Hype University, we have coaches, but all of these coaches are also podcast hosts. And so I want to tell you about one of our shows and it's called The Nourished Productpreneur with Stacey Jones. If you are, if you have a business where you sell physical products, so this could be jewelry, clothing, skincare, whatever. And you're looking for a place that can really guide you to and help you to build a long lasting brand, then you got to go listen to The Nourished Productpreneur because Stacey is a powerhouse.
She's built a seven figure brand since she started in 2015. Her lifestyle and activewear brand is called Sum of the Roots. And she is the go-to for anyone who is building a product-based business. So make sure you go listen to her show if this is you.
And let's get into this episode. Okay, so you know a little bit about your chart. You already know you're a projector. You already know you have a G-center or like sounding board authority, right?
Like you, you didn't know that. Okay, great. But you know you're a projector. I know I'm a projector.
That's about it. Okay, cool. So as a projector, you're like, well, projectors are about 20% of the population, but that is growing because, you know, the world is like shifting and the paradigm is changing and people are going from like being on the hamster wheel nonstop to like wanting to enjoy their life, go figure and like wanting to, you know, get more in touch with their spirituality and more in touch with self and more in touch with spirit. And the projectors are kind of the, you're kind of the ones that are kind of ushering in that new paradigm.
And so projectors are growing. Like there's a lot of projectors being born. Like Owen's a projector. Like there's a lot of kids that are projectors right now.
I think that's like, y'all are really here to guide us and you really are here to lead. And you really do see the world in a way that no one else really sees it, which you know about yourself. It's just this different way of thinking. On the other side of that, you're also, you live in a generator's world and like generators and manifesting generators represent about 60% of the population.
And you specifically surround yourself with a lot of generators and manifesting generators. Like, so you, but you said you've, but your relationships, a lot of your relationships are not. Projectors. Yeah.
So it's like a lot of your friends, I think are of that generator energy and like society in general is very generator heavy. And so the conditioning for a projector is that in order to be successful, you have to be producing more. You have to do more. You have to be more active.
You have to be more kind. You have to be more busy. You have to be more this. And that is very much against who you are to your core.
You have a very small, but very efficient battery. So projectors can get more done in 30 minutes than I could in an hour. It's just like, yeah, that makes so much sense. You guys are just super efficient.
And that's because most of your time is meant to kind of be in this observation zone and really observing what's happening. So if you think about it, like, like a car factory, there's like the offices that are upstairs and they can kind of see all the production that's happening down below. So those are kind of that, take that role of that bird's eye perspective. So I don't know a single projector that's not a master of some system and that it's a system in whatever your genius, wherever your genius lies.
And so for you, like, obviously your genius is art and music and creativity and writing and words and speaking, right? Like you teach people how to like, through your voice, through your music, you probably teach people how to love themselves better. Right, right. So it's your natural place of power and where you can teach from.
Anything that's undefined is a place of empathy. So you can empathize a lot from these places, but it's also where you mirror and amplify the most. Okay. So we live in a world that says, follow your gut, which is a defined sacral center.
And every generator and manifesting generator has it. You have a wide open sacral center. So this idea of follow your gut is basically like speaking in another language to you. Yeah.
Like you're always like, okay, yeah, I'm gonna follow my gut. I don't know what that means, but sure. Yeah. And you're not meant to follow your gut.
Like you have what we call G-Center authority, which is this, or you can call that sounding board authority. And what that means. for how you make decisions. And you do this really well.
And I don't even think you realize that this is helping you make decisions. But sounding board is you're meant to ask people their opinions on things. Okay. Through doing that, you're going to get clearer on what you actually stand for or how, what you actually feel.
So it's not like you're looking to other people to make your decision. It's just by hearing other people's opinions, you're gaining clarity for what your actual, like what you actually want. That makes, yes, I am a master of questions. And here's the caveat to that is a lot of projectors and you're a four, six projector, which I'll tell you about, but projectors in general, before people with a four in their profile, what you do, because you're a people person and you like people and you're an extrovert, so you like to be with people, you recharge with people.
You tend to ask everyone their opinion. Yeah. Not everyone should be asked. So it's super important for you that, and I think I've seen you over like the last couple of years that I've like really gotten to know you.
You are developing your cohort of people that you really trust to give you honest opinions. Like people like that in your life that you actually know are are here for your best interests. Right. Not people that just like want to give you their opinion because they're in a place of projecting their own insecurities onto you.
Right. And so oftentimes projectors will like ask their parents or like their siblings or like their friend from like 10 years ago for their opinions. But those people are not really who you should be asking like opinions when it comes to like making big decisions. Right.
So if it's like, do I stay in Mexico or do I move back to the States? Like, this is just hypothetical, right? Right. Don't go asking every single person.
Right. Ask the people that like genuinely have your best interest, but also are really standing in their own power as well. Right. Because then it's like, like if you were to, like if hypothetically, you were to be like, Danielle, do you think I should move back to like the States and like pursue music here?
Or do you think I should stay in Mexico? Like I would be, because I'm not like, I'm a strong personal power who's not trying to project insecurity onto anybody. I would be able to say to you, like, hey, okay, let's weigh it out. Like in Mexico, you feel really creative.
You're feeling a lot more in touch with your feminine power. When you come back to the States, you tend to tick back into your masculine power a little bit. It is where, you know, a lot of music is happening. So I would probably say, is there a way that you could be more bi-coastal and like spend six months in one place and six months in another so that you are able to balance those two energies and harmonize those two energies within yourself.
Right. You know, and like that, those are the kind of like opinions that you really need. And so I think probably that's what you're going through now, especially like coming through your Saturn return is finishing up. And like, you're probably feeling that a lot more that you can't just ask anyone their opinions.
And you actually do need to have like a core group of people that you go to for advice. Right. Okay. That makes sense.
That resonates like insanely. Insanely. Yeah. So yeah, just keep like, I would say I always tell people to like journal, like who your people are.
And so when you do start to feel out of control, when you do start to feel depression, come back in, when you do start to feel feelings of unworthiness or lack or fear, just go back to that list and reach out to those people about whatever it is that you're trying to make a decision on. Okay. Because the more that you hear from those people, the more clear you're going to get. And for you, like the right decision is always going to be the one that like, it's like, it's that heart, you know, it's the heart thing.
It's for you. It's like your truth is always in the tone of it. So when you're speaking, like when you're speaking a tone, okay, so like pay attention to when people are giving you advice, the tone in which they're doing it. So, and this can go for you as well.
So if you're talking about like an opportunity that like, in your mind makes sense, right. Or that it's going to get you what you want. But if it sounds uninspired or if someone you're talking to is like, Well, yeah, I mean, that could work. And like, it makes sense on paper, but it's not sounding exciting.
Right. That's going to reveal the truth about whether or not that's a good decision for you. So in your head, it doesn't really matter. Like what it, what the actual opportunity is.
Like, even if it's like moving back to the States, because you're going to sign this huge record deal and make a shit ton of money. Okay. But if that's not, if that just sounds like it makes sense on paper, but it's not actually like lighting up that, like that G center, that like love center that you have, then it's probably not the right choice for you. Okay.
Yeah. That makes sense. Yeah. I mean it like, and I feel like because you're so musical anyway, like you can hear tone in general.
Yeah. Yeah. But don't ever think that like talking things through is a bad thing with people. Um, there really isn't like, you can't have too many people that you talk things out with as long as all of those people, you know, you trust.
So I've some of you, like I have some projectors that have like three people and that is all they can handle. And that's all they want to hear from. And then I have a projector that like with this authority, with the sounding board authority that will go and like talk to 95 people. Like it really just depends on who, you know, who is, who you know is up for your best good and who's not, but you're also really good at knowing that, especially as you come into your thirties, like now that you're in your thirties, so that's the four six in you.
The four, it's like everybody has a profile. I'm a six two, you're a four six. And it's this, um, the four, the first number always represents how you feel about yourself. The second number always kind of represents how other people kind of see you.
And so your four is the people person. The six is the wise sage. So that's the sage. The six, like us sixes, we have three phases of our life.
Like there are three very clear phases of our life. Phase one is zero to 30. And that is the best way anybody can describe it is chaos. It's just complete and utter train wreck chaos.
And that's because we really are meant to experience a lot of things and we're meant to like, like, I know you and I have talked about this. Like everyone always says like, you lived nine lives before you turned 30 years old. And I'm like, yeah, I did. Like I really, really did.
And it's a lot, it's a time of trial and error. It's a time of mistakes. It's a time of course correction. It's a time of like self-discovery and exploration.
Um, and so it is like a really divine time, but to other people, it looks like that person is a train wreck. They are out of their minds. And so like a lot of, a lot of opportunities get lost when, before we're 30, because like people don't think we're reliable, but all that's doing is preparing you for your second phase, which is 30 to 50. And that's your observation time.
So that's the time you take all of those lessons and all of those trials and tribulations and all that shit you went through. And you really like start to internalize and start to create from a place of observation and like deeper knowing and understanding of self. And the good news is I think this is a good thing. Sixes don't really peak until we're in our fifties.
Like we got a lot of time to get there. And then after 50 is really where you take all of the lessons and all of the observation and you like put it together. And then that's when you can like emerge and like teach people a lot of shit. Like that's fifties is really when like we meet our like soulmates.
It's where we find our like dream careers. It's where we make the most money, all the things. Wow. Okay, cool.
So you got it. Feels good, right? You're like, Oh yeah, we're dying. But like, but the reason why we're the stage is because we have experienced a lot and we kind of just like came into this world with a knowing, um, I know you and I have talked about this as well.
Like I six is always like, I always say sixes could have raised themselves and often we did. And we just knew things. Like, we don't, we don't know how we know things. We don't know how we understand things, but we just, we just do.
And there's a pressure from the outside world to be able to like explain that or justify it. But the message is like, we don't have to, and nor should we, we just, because our gift is in, is in that wisdom. And we teach that wisdom, you know, moving forward. Uh, the four in you, that's your people person.
So that's like, that's like your extrovert. It's this, um, like, it's the connection that, you know, that, that what's that saying And you're not meant to be, like, everyone has like a karmic journey, right? We all have a karmic journey. You're either karmically, it's either a karmically personal journey or a karmically transpersonal journey.
I have a karmically transpersonal journey in that, like, I am meant to get a lot of information from a lot of different people, evolve myself, and like learn as much from as many sources as I can, and then channel that through myself and teach it outward. And you're really meant, like, you're gonna love this. The world will tell you it's not spiritual to be selfish. But for you, it actually is your genius.
And you came here to realize, like, your own passions, your own journey, your own evolution. And that's not really determined or influenced by anyone else around you. Like, you're here to figure out your journey, and then you take your knowing and you teach them outward. It's not really, it's not really like, whether or not somebody gives you an idea, like, even this, like, I'm giving you this reading right now, and you're gonna have some of it that resonates with you, and the stuff that doesn't, like, it's not really meant to, and it's okay to just, like, let it, let it flow through you the way that it's going to, and continue on this, like, very personal, self-absorbed journey, because that's actually how you drop into your genius of being a leader through music, and words, and identity, and, like, love, essentially.
Wow, okay. You're creative in nature, so the way that you, how do you create? It's not when you're in, like, a busy room with a ton of shit ton of people. You create better when you get to be alone in nature, plan with bugs.
I literally wrote that last night. On the other side of the paper, it says, alone, nature, talking to bugs. Yeah, like, literally, write this down. My, my purpose is to be more selfish and do what I love.
Okay, more selfish. So when you say that the world pretended it, like, acted like it's not spiritual. Well, the world says, like, the spiritual world will say it's not okay to be selfish. Yeah.
But, like, if you think about that in terms of, like, paradigms, right? This is, like, I can talk to you about this because we both speak this language. Like, the 3D paradigm is very much like boxes, rules, structures, roles. Everyone has a purpose.
Everyone has a role. Everyone has a, you know, component. Right. We move into this 4 and 5D plane and there's less rules.
There's less boxes. There's less confinement. There's less, like, everyone has a role. And, like, why can't we have multiple roles?
Why can't we identify as multiple things? Why can't we have a lot of different passions? Why can't we be in lots of boxes? Or how about we just have no boxes at all?
And for a society and a system that is trying to keep us in these boxes and roles, what is the number one threat to that system? It's selfishness. Right. Because if we're being selfish, we're being, we're thinking about ourselves and what we need and how we move through the world.
And ultimately, if we're all doing that, we're better for others. Because if you're living completely in your truth and you're not worried about pleasing other people and you're not worried about, like, living your life for other people's approval and you're just standing so personally in your power, what does that do? It influences me to do the same. And if we're all doing that, then there's no hate and there's no war and there's no death and it's just, like, there's no, like, murder.
It's just humans evolving as a collective consciousness. Right. Okay, so my purpose is to be more selfish. And do what I love.
And do what I love. And do what I love. And do what I love. Yeah.
Boundaries are, like, gonna be your best friend. Okay. Boundaries are sexy. Fucking hell.
Yep. Boundaries. Boundaries, baby. Okay, and then what else?
Oh, this is fun. We can talk about your emotional. Like, you're a non-emotional authority. So, anybody who has a defined solar plexus is considered an emotional authority.
Anybody that doesn't have a defined solar plexus is a non-emotional authority. And I like to talk about it because this is how you feel things. And, yeah. So, you and I are both non-emotional authorities, which basically just means, like, empath.
And it's funny because I'll tell people they're non-emotional and they're like, oh, no, no, I'm really fucking emotional. I'm like, yeah. It's the fact, though, that, like, your emotions are 100% dictated by what's happening in the world around you and what's going on around you. So, like, I am super affected by, like, the more people that are around it, I get more.
I feel it more than when I'm alone, you know, by myself, able to process my own thoughts. And, like, this is just the life of an empath. So, the way this, like, works when it comes to you making decisions, when you're deciding on things, is, like, let's say, I'll put this into, like, real life experience. So, like, let's say you're trying to decide whether or not you're going to move to stay in Mexico or move back to the States to pursue music.
And you start asking a bunch of people around you that have, like, a lot of shit going on and they're, like, living in their own scarcity and they're literally in their own personal versions of hell and they can't even see outside of that. Not only are you going to feel that, you're going to amplify that. Because remember, any place that is open is a place of amplify and a mirror, right? So, if I walk into a room, and I know you're like this.
If we walk into a room and there's somebody in there that, like, maybe, like, they stubbed their toe and, like, broke up with their girlfriend last night. So, they're, like, in a little bit of a bad mood. And we feel that. Not only, it's like a calm.
So, you're a calm lake. Imagine yourself as a calm lake that is neutral and glass. But what happens when you drop a rock into a calm lake, right? It ripples.
And the farther it goes, the bigger those ripples get. So, same with energy. If we walk into a space where there are people around us that are living in fear and scarcity or, like, having a bad day, that energy ripples and gets bigger. So, by the time we feel it, it actually feels way bigger than it actually is.
And then we bear that as our own. When really, we're a calm lake. Our natural state is calm. Our natural state is, like, neutral.
And so, if we're feeling anything but that, the best thing we can do is take a step out of that situation, come back to breath, come back to self, and realize, like, what is yours to carry and what is not yours to carry. Right. Now, obviously, like, different types of empaths. You're obviously a Scorpio, so you're going to be a lot more of, like, a psychic empath than a lot of other people.
I'm more of an intuitive empath where, like, I've gotten really good at being like, oh, I'll feel free. I feel for you, but I'm not going to feel for you. Right? Like, not my circus, not my monkeys.
For you, it is going to be harder to, like, make that distinction because I feel like a lot of people that are fours, a lot of Scorpios, and a lot of projectors tend to wear the emotions of other people a lot stronger, especially people that you care about. It's really easy for you to not feel the emotions of strangers, but people that you care about, it's it is more challenging for you to, like, not my circus, not my monkeys, that shit. Yeah. But that's your salvation.
Like, you, remember, you are a calm lake. So if you're ever feeling, like, too much stress, too much anxiety, depression, like, way too high, way too low, or anything else, like, get to the point where you can remove yourself, kind of take a step back, zoom out, and be like, who did I talk to today? Who have I been around today? Whose energy am I letting affect me?
Because for you, where most of us are energy auras that spin out around our body like three feet, yours probably is closer to six. Okay. So you're just, you just have a lot more, like, there's a lot more space there for, like, other people's energies to affect yours. Okay.
Which should help, especially when you are feeling, like, all the things. And you travel a lot and you're in airports a lot, and you're like, I would bet, like, sometimes maybe after traveling through a big city, you kind of, like, struggle with, like, dips. Yeah. That's just, yeah, think of how dense the energy is in a big city, like a big airport like LAX, right?
So it's like, give yourself some space after you land in these big cities to, like, be by yourself, come back to your center so you can actually make rational decisions. Yes. It's big. So you have an undefined ego.
So if you look at your undefined ego, this is where, when you're out of alignment, so when To recharge, which will be really good. And this is just like how you can kind of change the times that you do things. So if you notice that like during the night is when you're working and you're writing music and you're processing information and you're doing all these things, right? Then give yourself time during the daylight to recharge and rest by like being out in the sun, not working.
Be out in the sun taking walks, like spending time in solitude so that your brain has time to like recharge because when you go back into the night, you're going to be like on again. Okay, cool. And then as far as food, it's just best for you probably not to hold any fixed times or schedules for eating. So sometimes you may want dinner at six and the next day you may want it at eight.
And then like morning, you may want breakfast when you first wake up at seven, you may not want to eat till noon and that's really good for you because anything that you'd like, any routines that you try to hold, you have to remember that's going to take a lot of energy from you. And because you have a passive brain and you're a projector, anything that's like causing you unnecessary like overstimulation is not good for your system. So don't try to hold like any fixed routines or any eating routines. Like just let your body flow as it is because you are such a vibes and a feelings person.
It's going to be really like when you're hungry, you'll eat. Okay. Okay, good. Wow.
Yeah. So no scheduling. No schedule. I mean, because here's the thing, like you're going to have to schedule for work, right?
You're going to have to schedule book like when you book out for shows, when you book time to record, when you're booking time to write, when you're booking time for travel, that's taking a lot of booking time for you, right? But anyway, yeah, because you have so many areas in your life where you do have to schedule and like be on top of timing, like time, don't do that when you don't have to. Right? Like why?
It's just going to cause you, it's just going to drain you. And remember, you have a very small, but very efficient battery. So your battery is going to drain a lot faster than other people's. And so we've seen it on things like making sure that I'm eating at 8am every day because a doctor said that that's how I boost my metabolism.
It's not for you. Yeah. Okay. Wasting time trying to people please.
Wasting time trying to like be everything for everyone or wasting time trying to explain yourself or justify why you do the things you do. It's wasting your battery. But yeah, just, I would say that's like the best advice I can give you, especially as you're like, you know, building your career out. There's so many things that you're going to have to be like on for.
Right. Don't waste your energy on the things you don't have to be on for. Awesome. How do you feel?
I feel red. I know. I always like to do readings and people are like, I feel like you're like in my bedroom with me. No, I feel amazing.
I feel great. I like, we did it. So all of the, all those little tiny lines, they, we read through everything. Yeah, that was everything.
Amazing. Yeah. I don't try to like explain what each of the gates in the channels are because like, why, if you're not a human design reader, like the important part is that you just get the information you need. Thank you.
Yeah. Again, I'm not going to overwhelm your brain. Like for you, that's just going to stress out your brain. And like, I'm not trying to do that.
I'm just trying to give you the message so you can digest it as you need to. And then also remember that like things are going to come up over the next couple of days. Just say, and if you do a reading, like I would actually suggest if you do a reading with your friend, do it like tomorrow. Give your brain time to digest this.
Go out, like as soon as we get off of this, go outside in the sun and be outside and let your brain recharge because you just got like a lot of information. There's no sun in LA. Right. But still being outside.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Take a break from digesting. Yeah. Okay.
And then come back to it. Like I tell every projector, if you've been working, digesting information, learning anything for more than three hours at a time, take a nap or eat a snack. Eat a snack. Okay.
And then go back to it. Like, you're not really meant to be doing anything for more than about three hours at a time. That makes so much sense why every time I'm in a music session, like, they're trying so hard to do like four or five hour sessions and I'm like, I can, I'm so, I can't. Yeah.
Or if they want to do a five hour music session, great. At two and a half hours, we're going to take a break halfway through. We're gonna take a 30 minute break and then we come back. Okay, that's good to know.
That's ways that you can work with the world around you and the expectations of the world without around you without sacrificing your own boundaries and like way of function. Right. OK, cool. Thank you so much, baby.
You're welcome. And if anything comes up over the next few days, weeks, months, years, whatever, just text me. I will. Thank you so much, baby.
I love you. I love you. I love Owen. I love you.
I love Breezy. All right. Talk to you soon. Bye.