"He married his sponsor..." | Episode 121 - Ernie

Almost four decades sober, one sponsor-turned-wife, a secular approach to recovery, and a lifetime of lessons earned the hard way.Ernie shares his journey from a seven-day-a-week drunk and bar fighter to a man living a calm, grounded life in long-term recovery. With humour, grit, vulnerability, and zero sugar-coating, he speaks about atheism in AA, PTSD, Vietnam, relationships, emotional honesty, science-based recovery, and why newcomers still matter most.From “go to meetings and don’t drink in between” to “how old will you be if you don’t start?”, this is a conversation filled with lived wisdom rather than slogans.Whether you’re newly sober, questioning your path, or decades into recovery yourself, Ernie’s share is a reminder that recovery is less about perfection and more about staying present, staying honest, and staying alive.“Trust your experience. Stay busy. Be easy on yourself. Life happens when you make other plans.”