He Was My Brother, Not My Family (Episode 133)

Someone you trust hurts you. You reach for the person who should protect you. Instead, you hear disbelief and blame. That moment can change how you move through the world, and it can take years to name what it stole from you. We sit down with Jojo Campbell, host of No Hard Feelings Kinda, to tell a story that’s painfully common and still rarely spoken out loud: sexual assault followed by family denial, loyalty to the wrong person, and the pressure to “keep the peace” at any cost.Jojo walks us through the events that led from a first violation to a second, more severe assault, and what it did to her sense of safety. We talk victim blaming, coercion, and the specific trauma that hits when a relative chooses reputation or friendship over your wellbeing. We also get honest about the internal tug-of-war survivors face: guilt that isn’t theirs, the instinct to minimize, and the exhaustion of staying on guard around people who claim to love you.From there, we shift into healing and boundaries. Jojo explains why she went no contact, what staying connected would have done to her mental health, and how chosen family can be more real than blood ties. We also dig into her focus on healing with humor and why dark humor can help people survive heavy experiences, as long as it doesn’t become the only coping mechanism. If you’ve ever questioned your instincts, struggled to set boundaries, or wondered whether you’re allowed to love someone from afar, this conversation gives language and clarity.Subscribe to MindShift Power Podcast, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more survivors can find support. What boundary are you ready to set next?🔗 Connect with JoJo:https://sites.google.com/view/nhfkpodcastSend us an anonymous text messageSupport the showEvery episode brings global perspectives and leadership insights. Click on the "Support the show" link above and keep the mission alive for free!Search MindShift Power Podcast buy topic here: https://www.fatimabey.com/podcast-searchExplore more about my work beyond podcasting, check out the blog, share your thoughts, or become a guest! https://www.FatimaBey.comI also have another podcast called The MindShifter Audio Blog!Experience my written words like never before, as I personally narrate my blogs for a truly engaging audio journey. https://www.fatimabey.com/audioblogFollow me on social media: https://www.fatimabey.com/#1035650492Thank you for listening!