Healing, Boundaries, and Becoming Your True Self with Sandra Guevara

What happens when you realize you’ve built a life around everyone else — and don’t quite know who you are underneath it all?In this episode, Sandra Guevara shares her journey from growing up in a chaotic home to rebuilding her relationship with her mom, redefining friendship, and choosing a life rooted in authenticity. This is a gentle, real look at what it takes to stop people-pleasing and start honoring who you actually are.In this conversation, we explore how family dynamics, childhood wounds, and unspoken expectations shape the way we show up in relationships — with others and with ourselves. Sandra talks about leaving home young, feeling unseen, learning to set boundaries, and slowly finding her voice again through healing work and tarot.You’ll hear about:Rebuilding a strained mother–daughter relationship from resentment to best-friend energyMoving from people-pleasing and “doormat” patterns into clear, grounded boundariesWhy friendships shift as we grow — and how to navigate those changes with more maturitySeeing jealousy and triggers as mirrors, not proof that something is wrong with youThe reality of healing: messy, cyclical, and still worth choosingSandra’s Authentic AF group container and her upcoming “Who Am I?” workshopIf you’ve been questioning who you are outside of your roles, relationships, and past, let this episode be a soft nudge back toward yourself.Connect with Sandra:TikTok: sandraguevara_Instagram: sandia4lyfe_→ Connect with me on Instagram: @brooklincbuchanan