Heather Sutherland - Suicide loss as the wallpaper to your life

"I never got to say goodbye, and he never said it to me, so our relationship, albeit in different forms, goes on" Key takeaways from this podcastReframing our language to acknowledge that grief is a 'living' experience rather than a past-tense 'lived one' can be really helpfulRelationships don't necessarily end with deathframing helpful and courageous questions which can be answered, rather than one's without an answer, can help us to move forwardHeather lost her brother Martin to suicide in 2011, a bereavement which has had a profound impact on the course and focus of her life and career in the years since.  She talks about how her grief and loss of her brother isn’t a ‘lived’ experience but a ‘living’ one.  Now a lecturer in the ‘school of education, language and psychology’ at St John’s University in York, Heather’s research and work focusses on better understanding the issues around student mental health and mental health more widely across academic institutions.  A rich, honest and thought-provoking conversation about Heather’s experiences and research which will linger long in your memory.  Student Minds: https://www.studentminds.org.uk/Advance HE - Education for Mental Health Toolkit - Staff Wellbeing: https://www.advance-he.ac.uk/teaching-and-learning/curricula-development/education-mental-health-toolkit/underpinning-infrastructure/staff-wellbeingAn article Heather wrote for BACP University and College Counselling journal: https://www.bacp.co.uk/bacp-journals/university-and-college-counselling/2024/articles-may/distinctions-and-visibilities/SRHE post on academic mental health: https://srheblog.com/2024/04/10/the-importance-of-academic-mental-health/Heather's Blog: https://sibsas.blogspot.com/?m=1Martin's Music Site: https://www.martinsutherlandmusic.co.uk/Heather's PhD research: https://researchportal.northumbria.ac.uk/en/studentTheses/thinking-differently-about-student-mental-health-and-wellbeing-le-3If you need someone to talk to, you can text Mikeysline on 07786 20 77 55 or contact via messenger, webchat or X. Sun-Thurs 6pm-10pm & Fri-Sat 6pm-11pm.Or come and visit at 4 Strothers Lane, Inverness IV1 1LR, Sun-Thurs 6pm-10pm & Fri-Sat 6pm-11pm.Follow Mikeysline on socials XFacebookInstagramSpeaking of Suicide hosting is supported by D and D Paving Ltd. Speaking of Suicide is produced and presented by Adventurous Audio in Scotland